ANSWERS: 24
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I'd stop doing it in the first place. Drama isn't my thing.
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I doubt I'd even be the "other woman" in the first place. I do not have a thing for married men, and women who do, in my opinion, need to get a reality check.
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I'd be more worried as to why I'd want to be with someone who's married(and a cheat)rather than how I can hurt his wife.
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Well... I'm a man so I'll say what you both should do.... You and the other woman. Hmmm... Well, he's being a little immature and he's being a little boy and you are both are letting him be one. You need to both get this 'guy' with his pants down and you both need to spank his ass raw and make him realize that it's time to grow up and to be a man and to choose the woman he wants to be with for the rest of his life.
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I wouldn't be in that situation because I would have more respect for myself. besides there is a little saying and its true, if he will cheat with you then he will cheat on you. I have many male friends and my partner has many female friends and we appreciate each others right to have our own friends. But, we don't disrespect ourselves nor each other by cheating just because we talk to someone of the opposite sex. We have what is called self control.
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Whatever will make you feel better so that you can walk away from this. She should know. Should you be the one to tell her? Maybe. I bet she'll learn sooner or later thou. I am so sorry you have feelings for this guy. All he is to you is PAIN.
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Yes, I would tell her! I don't like drama, but lies & deception are worse. It's only fair to ALL parties concerned to know the truth!
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If I was the other woman, I'd probably lack the morals and decency to tell the wife, because I lacked the morals and decency to not have sex with a married man in the first place.
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Sounds to me like you want to tell her to force something to "happen". Since he has told you that he doesn't know if he wants to leave his wife maybe you think applying a bit of pressure will make things crack and you can pick up the pieces. What his statement really says to you, as the other woman, is "Congratulations! You are now in a relationship with EXACTLY the same loser as his wife is!". He wants his cake and to eat it too. As long as you are both willing to settle for his crumby behavior he will get exactly what he wants!
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no i wouldn't tell the wife but i would leave the man. it's not my business what they do.
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This guy wants his cake and eat it and who knows how many cakes he has out there. If you are the other woman then remember that one day he will do the same to you. Do yourself a favour and dump him, he really is no good and a no hoper. The more he tells you how much he loves you, wants you etc, the more he is lying and lying comes very easy to this kind of snake in the grass. You have been warned. Even if you did tell his wife she would still take him back again and again, she knows what he is and you are probably not his first affair but the wife has the most to lose. Forget him and find someone decent who will treat you right.
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No, I'd just break it off as not worth it and find a man of my own and not be responsible for other people's pain.
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I wouldnt have let myself get into that situation in the first place, you seem to think by telling his wife that she will end her marriage and then he will come running to you and you will live happily ever after, where as in reality all that will happen is you will break up a marriage and loose the man you say you love, he wants to play on both ides of the fence, having his wife and hgis lover, do yourself a favour and leave him and keep quiet, no good is coming from what you are doing and no good can come from what you plan on doing to his poor wife!!!
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I would tell her anonymously but not expect him to leave her because he is a complete cad. The only sensible course then is to cut it off completely.
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Why would you love and want a man who is married and won't leave his wife to be with you? He is using you and forget about telling his wife because they will probably still be together long after you are gone. How would you feel if you were his wife and he was cheating on you, which just might happen if you ever got him to leave his wife, which statistically is extremely unlikely? Stop being used and contributing to the destruction of marriage and being faithful because what goes around comes around and what you are doing is wrong by enabling him to use both you and his wife. Find a single man and if you get married to him or are in a committed relationship hope that he does not meet a woman who is presently like you.
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If you are the other woman, you are a fool. Even if you end up with this cheater, keep in mind, most likely he will end up cheating on you!
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I wouldn't ever be the 'Other Woman'......You should probably try finding your very own man
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I would tell the wife JUST to regain some of the integrity i have lost by being a part of this. I would NOT WANT to continue with this "person" but rather end it and let the wife have full knowledge of the situation so she can make a well informed decision about her life and the "person" in her life.
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in college i tried that once. i vowed to never do that again!!! it's just tooooooo confusing and requires tooooo much energy! if somebody loves me, wonderful, but don't go straying off here and there. if he did it once, he's likely to do it again with you. here's an interesting statistic. 99% of married men who cheat, cheat with ANOTHER WOMAN!!! in other words, men cheat. women cheat. in my opinion, whether you are the married cheater or the other person, you're both cheating. i think that sometimes a cheater deserves a second chance, but, other times, not. but, never a second time.
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Why would you even want a loser like this? Don't you think that you can do better? Women who settle for scumbags like this are never happy. If they actually do get the jerk, there is always that little voice, "Would he ever do that to me?" Answer-yes!
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i would not want him since he is married in the first prove. move on and find you a nice single man that is available. +5
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its depressing to hear that so many people need to wreck a home as foreplay. I guess his partners are limited so it is safer, except his wife is going to kill you
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Naw, I'd break it off a couple more times...cause each time, it will be different
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YOU ARE OKAY FIRST THING I WANT YOU TO KNOW. I SEEN OTHER ANSWERS AND DO NOT AGREE THAT YOU ARE A HOMEWRECKER. HE IS WHEN HE STARTED WITH YOU. I KNOW THAT IT IS DIFFUCULT TO WALK AWAY. I WOULDN'T TELL HER, JUST GET AWAY FROM THE TWO TIMER..EVEN IF IT EVER WORKED OUT FOR YOU HE WILL DO THE SAME. WHO KNOWS HE MAY BE TELLING YOU THAT TO MAKE TIME FOR ANOTHER MISTRESS. TO ALL THE CHEATING MEN AND TO ALL THE WOMEN WHO BELIEVE THAT THE OTHER WOMAN IS THE HOMEWRECKER. WAKE UP....
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