the two of you need to talk an figure out what each want' if you want to be with him someone is going to have to give up something. or it won't last.

I would break up with him. I would expect a greater level of commitment, long distance or not. He should have self-control. If he does not, he is not ready for any relationship, long distance or not. What will the excuse be when you are living in the same place? Cheating involves taking risks with sexual health. His and yours.

Seems to me that he is only interested in the physical side of love. if you care about someone, long distance or not, you do not cheat.

I wouldn't be able to do it, but: do the same, you are at the same distance from him as he is from you, if you see what I mean. "It's hard", isn't it...

That's not even an apology. That sounds like he's using excuses to cheat so that you will forgive him. If I were in your shoes, I would hope that I would have enough strength to end the so-called "relationship". That's a sign of manipulation on his part. Seriously. Relationships shouldn't be one-sided. Well, not in my opinion anyway.

Don't buy that load of BS. He is just using that as an excuse to play you for a fool, and get away with whatever he wants.

I would dump him. Long distance relationships are hard but they are not that hard where you need to go out and cheat to get your kicks. Clearly, he is not ready for a serious relationship. No matter what he says, the fact that he brings up how hard long distance relationships are for him, give it away that he will do it again and again. If you care about yourself, then leave this guy alone. He is basically giving you an excuse for cheating and his continued cheating. Give him some space and if by chance he grows up and decides he is really ready to commit, then you can "think" about giving him another chance. If you need anymore advice, you can always check out GirlsAskGuys too where users specialize in giving honest and helpful relationship advice. Good luck to you.

he's obviously lying, so if you want to be with a liar, stick my your man (and every other woman he chooses to be with while you're away) however, if you're wise, you would let him go. better yet, since he's so into you at the end of the day; tell him that 2 can play the game. you come home to him at the end of the day, after being with whomever you choose to lay with. ** see if he likes his nookie being worldwide. kick that dude to the curb...he's playing you bigtime.

OMG - This is happened to me only a few weeks ago! I thought I was the only one in the world with this frustrating situation. Here is what happened to me - we were long distance for 1.5 years. We saw each other every 3-6 months and when we did we were perfect. Our emails and calls were so beautiful through the start. Later they started to trail off and we started arguing due to frustrations. He broke it off with me 2 months ago, but I know he cheated on me twice while we were apart because of the same reason "long distance is hard and if you were here it wouldn't happen.. but i love you and want to be with you." Sometimes I think they just indulge us because they are afraid of hurting us and afraid of losing us at the same time. But they are with other girls!! I know he is with someone else now too. The thing is I am SO in love with him and almost Understand - which is so screwed up! This is what we should do: Confront them and say - its over - the've lost us and let THEM think about it. On the other hand I feel that if we do that we actually do run the risk of losing them - which is not what we want. The fact remains though - THEY ARE CHEATING and we don't deserve that! Its one of those backed into a corner situations - you either bite the bullet and move or make a serious decision (maybe ultimatum?) Good luck & I am here if you want to talk!

I wonder how many different girls he will be with that "dont count". I would no longer call this a relationship. Time for you to be with different guys - and maybe find one who does truly love you and is happy with you now.

once he cheats and gets away with it, he will continue to do it until you end it. might as well get it over with. Sorry, I know thats the last answer you wanted, but, been there, done that.

I'd dump him. This man clearly holds very little weight for the emotional side of love and very little respect for you and your feelings.