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Because the anonymity factor of an all-text environment on the Internet depersonalizes the questioner. People can say almost anything they want without the same kinds of repercussions they'd get with cruel or harsh behavior in face-to-face communication.
That, and some people are just rude.
It is difficult to discern intent in written form; we miss out on valuable facial cues and vocal inflection. So what may appear to be cruel or rude may often be simply the reader's interpretation. I see this happen quite often on Answerbag.
depends on the mood. I'm feeling edgy today so I think some of my answers have been harsh.
Also it's easy to be brutally honest when you don't know the situation, you don't know who you are talking to and you're looking in on someones life from a 7 word question.
It's easy for me to tell a girl who is asking about a cheating boyfriend to just leave him because he's no good. BUT really I dont know him and I dont know her so we can all be a little judgmental when it is someone else's life.
Maybe they arent being cruel, Just truthful.
And some people.. cant handle the truth.
Just a part of life.
maybe its not the answer u wanted to hear so u assume its cruel. But beware of some that are just being smart asses and want to hurt everyone!!
Is it impolite to not reply to a routine thank you?
by e63a6 on July 8th, 2010
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What happened to most of my comments to the people that answered my question? Some of them seem to have disappeared.
by anonymous on December 13th, 2010
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What's your opinion of AB questions that are obviously someone's homework assignment?
by Randy D on September 27th, 2011
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Does anybody else ever feel a little nervous to post/answer questions?
Some of the people here can be a little mean sometimes... D:
by Mrs.AlexShepard on July 18th, 2010
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e-mailing answer bag pages?
by C_Anglin on June 15th, 2010
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perfect answer Jodie...have you been around here lately? I haven't seen you
by Jane on April 4th, 2008
Have I? I left you a comment about a couple of hours ago, LOL.
Ah me. How quickly I'm forgotten <sobs> http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2660800
by Jodie44 on April 4th, 2008
LOL, no i mean in the past month or so....maybe we havent crossed paths
by Jane on April 4th, 2008
HAHAHA. Yeah, I've been around.
by Jodie44 on April 4th, 2008
She's been locked up in a tower awaiting a prince so as to rescue her. LOL
by unknown on April 4th, 2008
her prince huh?
by Jane on April 4th, 2008
Yes. Didn't you read the book? lol
by unknown on April 4th, 2008