ANSWERS: 31
  • If you don't see the point of getting one, then don't! Try not to feel pressured into things by your friends, be your own person and when you are ready to have a girlfriend you will find it a lot easier to ask them.
  • I don't know what your friends think the point of having a girlfriend is, but i guarantee you at that age, they don't know either. A lot of people say this, but it's true...don't be peer pressured. If you see a girl you like, then talk to her. But if you don't like any girl right now, then just continue hanging out with your friends. And this is a shocker, but your parents understand more than you think. You should talk to one of them about how you feel. Don't ever be embarassed. We all went through it before.
  • You are shy because you don't see the point of a girlfriend? Why would that make you shy? Do you really want a girlfriend? Why bother now if you don't want one?! You could go against the grain and be single. Why not? Wjy follow your friends, because then you have to pay for dates, remember stuff, hold her crap for her, be there for her 24/7. Do you need the hassle? no!
  • hey mate im in the same boat!
  • At least 85% of girls actually want the guy to ask them out. So, if you're not entirely hideous, just act cocky and ask one out. At least 75% will say yes if you are above the average guy. Although, seeing that you said you're "shy", you have no chance. My advice to you is to get a life.
  • If you don't understand the point, then there probably is no point. One thing that worked for me in Jr. High school was a girl I got along with reasonably well, but who was also uninterested in anything more serious. We were seen together at a couple of strategic times and places after which everyone just seemed to assume we were a couple which took a lot of pressure off both of us. If anyone asks what you do together, just smile mysteriously.
  • There is no point, if you feel that there is no point. This is you telling yourself that your not ready. Its a waste of time at your age anyway to be honest, but what I would suggest is just having a party at your next birthday and inviting a few girls that way you'll get chatting and develop a few freindships that maybe will blossom.
  • If you don't think there's a point then you don't need one. It's perfectly okay to be your age without a girlfriend. When you want one, you will know, believe me!
  • Dude if you don't understand the point, there's no need to get one..... most relationships at that age don't last more than a few weeks anyways. Don't worry about it buddy. It'll happen when you're ready. Don't let what everyone else is doing, dictate what you do.
  • LOL dude, you're better off without one!!
  • Haha +4 for a question that make no sense what so ever!!!
  • there really isnt a point in having one at this age. it more than likely wont last forever. plus, now is the turning point for teens. so everythings confusing anyway, so why complicate things more than you should?
  • There's not a point to it at 13 other than to be like the others who are playing romance. When you meet a girl and can hardly speak around her you'll know you want her to be your girlfriend. Then try to get to know her and the other will follow.
  • If you don't understand the point of it, and, you aren't ready yet, then, don't look for a girlfriend because, even if you do find one, you won't be able to keep her.
  • get some balls in you and start asking girls out on a date your next question should be "what are yer favorite pick up lines?" exp. "hiya bitch wanna go out tonight?" lol i suggest you try that one though how bout winking at every girl ir whistling at them haaha well i suggest you dont look for one unless you really like that girl then thats where everything makes sense
  • juz get the courage to ask her out! Best of Luck!Rgds p. s.DONT DIsAPPOINT HER ON YOUR 1ST DATE
  • Don't waste your time and effort. Someday you'll find one or she'll find you. In the meantime there are important video games to be played. And school, if you're into that.
  • I really wouldn't worry about it. Just focus on being you and making lots of friends. Girls will come along when the time is right. And if you try too hard you will just be miserable and you'll find yourself attracted to the wrong girls all the time.
  • if you don't see the point of a girlfriend why do you want one ?
  • Since your 13 you should know that it doesn't matter is you have a girlfriend. Try getting good grades and making some accomplishments to build up your life a little and one day they will be asking you and you wont have to worry about it.
  • be your self
  • Honey, don't worry about getting a girlfriend. Have fun. You'll meet a girl that you think is really special and then it will not be hard to pay special attention to her. You are right -- at 13 when you do not particularly like a girl, there is no point.
  • You want what others have, and if you get it now you will probably get bored with it... Don't try to have a girlfriend just because you want to be like others... Live your life, your 13! Learn and grow up, gain more life experience, then let things work out their way or apply what you have learned to meet someone interesting
  • If You don't see the point, don't look for one. The best You can do is develop as a person and as a young man. Get confidence, get smart, get to know Yourself, take care of Your appearance, hang around with friends (boys and girls) if You want... and when You finally start seeing the point of having a girlfriend (which will happen automatically, since it's biological and bound to happen at one time or another), You will have what is needed to get a valuable one. . And don't pay attention to other boys. This is the age when most of them are insecure and guided by wanting to have what they don't understand, just because it's "mature" or "manly". It's the "I'm all grown up now" thing. And it's possible they might be malicious towards You, but pay no attention. A person who has a high self-esteem doesn't need to be malicious to others, so if they are, it means they have some problem and are just covering it up. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Superiority_complex
  • women like men with big penises. Just tell everyone you have a giant bannana in your pants.
  • Don't if you don't see the point.
  • I would'nt worry about it mate, when I was 13 I did,nt even think about or talk to girls probably because I was too shy to but I did'nt worry about it then and I don't think you should either. Don't worry or think about it now because its just part of nature which will find its own way eventually.
  • You are still a baby. Wait for another 5 years.
  • if you dont feel like getting gf, its fine but do you feel odd better be cool and joyous
  • There's your answer! If you don't see the point, then what's the rush? Just because everyone else has one? That's no way to make decisions for yourself.
  • dude just live life. you'll have decades of having women annoy you so just enjoy what you have now.

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