I'd need more information. What does he give as the reason why you haven't met her before now? Is the ex any kind of issue at all? Have you two talked marriage?

What are you waiting for? Tell him you are making arrangements to take her to Chuck E Cheese, or some other kiddie play/eat place and you want to know what time.

He says he wants to protect his daughter, presumably from the sometimes harsh realities of divorce. He also doesn't want to further harm his ex-wife.

well I'm afraid I would have spat the dummy after 6 months...sorry but to me he is making your sound(and feel) your not good enough to meet his precious daughter ...I would lay my cards on the table and ask him out right ..why?..if he says he's protecting his daughter or he doesn't want to up set the ex...BULLSHIT!!, your good enough for him to jump your bones for 2 years (assuming he is) then your good enough to meet his daughter ..if he procrastinates then piss him off!!! and tell him to get use to his right hand because to me he is using you and your better than that ...arn't you?

My ex & I have an agreement, we will NOT introduce anyone we are dating to our child UNLESS we have made a commitment to that person. Otherwise, no need for it. So...I think the question should really be about your relationship with him. I think after two years a person in the relationship knows if they want to make a commitment to the other person or not. I would ask him about the status of your relationship with him, what he sees for the two of you in the future and go from there. My ex has been dating a woman for two years, our son doesn't spend time with her, EVER. She asked him about it, he told her, "I'm not interested in making a commitment, I'm happy with the way things are between us." She's sticking it out, however if it were me I would've told him, See yaaa!!

Dear miss Anonymous. It's time you removed the earplugs and put on (different) glasses, because this is just plain obvious. 2 years of dating, you say? To me, that sounds harshly like 2 years of you being played. This guy should've been bringing up marriage after two years, if things had gone well, but it looks like they haven't. And to top it off, "he doesn't want to further harm his ex-wife"? I'm sorry, miss, but this is going to be a nasty wake-up call. If this guy really cared for you, he would've introduced you to his little princess after a couple of month the very latest. Of course, to me, dating is seeing someone once a week or at least once every other weeks. Meeting someone less often than that is just randomly getting together with a friend (with benefits?) and nothing else. But you have been doing this for two years, and all you've seen is possibly is a picture in this player's wallet? That's pretty patient of you. Actually, more like gullible. If it takes this guy years to evaluate you, you should already realize that he's either a nutcase, or just not interested in a real relationship. And you don't want either of those, do you? He even blew it up big time, by saying that thing about his ex-wife. Wake up, miss, it's his ex-wife! She's an ex for a reason - and she's the last person he should be (and probably is) thinking about right now. It's not too late to get rid of this guy - but you better do it now, since I doubt that you want to lose more than the 2 years that have already gone by without any progress whatsoever. Be honest with yourself and stern with him, it's time to go.