My girlfriend wont do anal sex. She thinks it is dirty. How do i convince her to try it? PLEASE!!!

"Oops... Wrong hole, Sorry. <brief pause> Did you like it?"

Buy her a strap-on and let her use it on you - Show her that it is okay.

just convince her she will like it if that doesn't work tey someone new

Well...no is no...BUT...try this...

Don't have sex with her when she is having her period...PERIOD.

Woman tend to get horny during their time of the month, so if she's having her period, then get a few drinks in her and start making out.

Get her pants off (or skirt or whatever), then finger her clitoris (its the bump on the top of her vagina guys) and she'll start getting worked up.

When she begs you to have sex, tell her no...you're not into it (even if you've done it before, act is if it was a turnoff).

Keep on fingering her clit and have her go down on you (my girl gets VERY worked up when she gives oral). Don't cum in her mouth, then ask her for anal. If she says no, then that's cool, cum in her mouth or wherever, but insist that you will not have vaginal sex with her during that time of the month.

If she doesn't give in immediately, then stick to your guns and eventually she will be willing to have anal.
If not then and there, then repeat the process every time she has her monthly, and you will be hitting that ass in no time!

IMPORTANT! If she DOES give in, EASE into it, don't ram it in! Make sure she or you are well lubed and SLOWLY enter her...don't have her give it up to ruin your chance of it ever happening again.

If you can provide a good enough experience the first time, then you can add it to your sexual repertoire.

first step is realizing if she doesn't want to you can't force here. second step is do your homework. learn the best ways to preform the act and let her know you've been doing some research. in fact, having her help you with the research can help her understand it is an ok thing and not as dirty as she may think. also you may want to check out the work of Tristan Taormino, she has a lot of informational books and videos on the subject.

OKies! I am out

Some woman like it, others do not. Simple question for a simple answer. My boyfriend got me into anal sex though, I never ever thought about it then he brought it up and it's crazy. :)

-Jessica Edgell soon to be Zeidler.

I have been asking the same question for 4 years (the length of time I've been with my current gf). She thinks its disgusting, but I think she can be swayed. For instance, when we are having sex it really turns her on if her grab her ass. Recently, I have been doing it so my fingers are getting closer and closer to her anus every time, and all I'm noticing so far is that she loves it more and more every time. Now I know its a way off full blown anal sex, but small steps! I have also managed to get her to let me lick her anus recently too, so I will keep hoping.

By the far the best way though would be for her to get the idea from a female source. A friend who has done it and loved it, a ladies magazine that raves about it. Both approaches have worked with ex's of mine. One hated it still, the other couldn't get enough of it!

its not only dirty but its not normal, if you got a gay thing going on dont do it on your gf no means no.

If she says no, its no. If she is willing to try it, use LOTS of lube and go slow. My GF didn't like it at first, now she can't get enough of it.

ok this can be a sensitive issue for some women.first of all you have to be convincing and do your research.then you have to let her know youve done your research that way she knows you know what your doing.if or when she decides to let you perform anal sex dont just ram it in because itll be your first and last time.first of all your going to have to use a decent amount of lube with anything you put in there.i would recomened starting out with a waterbased lube and a small vibrator or dildo.anywhere from 3-6 inches.youll need patience because your going to have to go slow.for most women getting past the first inch or two of insertion is the most painful part.you need to be reassuring her kissing her ect.once your in that first couple inches stop!give her time to unclench her muscles and relax.let the initial pain subside.once youve done that slowly ease in a little at at time taking rest periods.getting your penis inside her back side all the way could take anywhere from 10-30 minutes depending on your patience and her willingness.whatever you do control yourself i've heard of tomany guys having an orgasam while just trying to get in.then your screwed, because she got not satisfaction from i doubt she'll let you try agian.once your in all the way and youve given her time to relax draw your self out just a couple of inches and the slowly back in.no long strides!it'll hurt her.eventualy shell get into it and shell take control and youll both have a great orgasam.or shell say no never agian.it all depends on you big boy!

get her drunk enough to pass out and get it done

:)) answer 6 (myster)..ur a woos :)) 4 years it took u to get close to her butt hole :))...that means she doesn't care about what u would like and doesn't give a shat about u...trust me on this dump her...if she loved u she would have at lest tryed ...i u really wanna do it just sit her down and have a talk with her, explain her the pro and the contra.4 ex: pro: the anus has the second largest nerve concentration in the body(first is the genitals), the female rectum is shares a walls with the vagina thats why some f emails have reported to have orgasms while havening anal, it will be a bonus in ur sex life stuff like this, and dont forget the contras: it might heart if its not done properly, if u really have no idea what u are going it can even lead to rectal wounds, best way to avoid this is to research on the net, with her even, let her see for her self.
AND GIRLS STOP SAYING NO if u didnt try it just because u THINK u will not like it, u'll just prove that ur narrow-minded and that ur probably very dull in bet so shhh...try first..comment after

its a common view. would you like something shoved up your ass? ive also heard that it can hurt a lot. just ask her if she will just try it once just to see if she for sure doesnt like it, and if you can convince her, be really really careful.

patience is the only hope

dont force her, it will only get you no where