I just found out my GF pregnant ! the test thingy or w/e said positive but i wore a condom and i know it didnt brake. And she wont tell her parents !What do i do ? i dont want an abortion but im only 15 and im not bailing like my father did ......TIPS?
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HELP !!!!!
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since you want to do the right thing and not bail, and you are already closing out abortion, you can either help raise the child or give him up for adoption. ans no offense, get a paternity test, a few guys i worked with got screwed out of 10 years of their life for not checking
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Either keep the kid of give it up for adoption. Not a lot of other choices. you should probably check out planned parenthood for a more accurate test. also get a paternity test. I've know a lot of guys who got screwed over by not doing this.
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A termination would be the best option at this age.
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I don't think you get to choose abortion or no abortion. Your GF and you can work this out together but ultimately the decision will be hers. This has been tested in court already and a woman could not be forced to carry her pregnancy to term if she chose not to. Sorry. There aren't any good choices here - just ones that you must live with no matter what it is. I've know people that had children at 15 and sometimes it works out okay. I can't think of any tho that stayed in the relationship that produced the child. You're a good person to have the moral value that you won't bail. Every child brought into this world should have the right to have a Good relationship with his/her parents. The fact that many don't is at the core of many of our society's deepest problems. Best wishes to you both. on a lighter note, I don't mean to sound picky but...the condom could Break...but only you could have Braked.
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If you are sure the condome didn;t break and you have always been careful, then I would ask who else she is sleeping with? Tell your parents the truth and wait for a paternity test. If the baby is yours great, take responsibility and move on with your life. You can still go to school, work whatever and raise your baby. If it's not yours, be thankful and stay away from her!
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First of all, you need to demand a paternity test. If she throws a fit, tell her that you need to be sure the child is yours before you can make any other further decisions. She can scream at you once the results show it is yours. If it does turn out to be yours, (which I highly doubt to be honest with you), then you have one other choice outside of abortion. And that is adoption. You two are obviously too young to properly care for the child yourselves, so your best bet is to put it up for adoption and opt to remain in contact with the family. I strongly advise against attempting to raise the child yourself, given that you are nowhere near the financial or developmental position to do so. But MAKE SURE SHE PROVES IT'S YOURS! I cannot stress that enough.
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i would have to go with an abortion. i know you don't want one and it will be hard on you, but you're 15 years old! you are not ready to be a father. you have to think about what would be best not just for you and your girlfriend, but for the child as well. I don't think that this is a good time for it to be born and have a decent childhood. There will always be time for more children. Do it as soon as possible- you can talk to a school nurse or a go to connexions (there should be one in every town)if you don't know where to go. Go with your girlfriend and hold her hand. I think that this would be the best thing you could do right now. But, by the way, how pregant is she? If it's only been a few days and she took one of those First Response tests, there's a 90% chance that it's not an actual pregnancy!
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you should not do a abortion a adoption or anything like that do the right thing and raise him like a man and be a good father dont put him up for adoption then he will be wondering every night why didnt my father want me i understand its tuff but take responsibility take it like a man
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You can't make that decision. only the mother (the GF) can. I would make sure I was the father if she did keep it. I am sorry your father bailed out on you and you're mom.. but look how well you turned out! hug and tell your mom daily how much you thank her. I would also maybe talk to your mom about it!! good luck and I hope it turns out the way you want it to
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tell her parents and your parents, OR you could pull a HAIL MARY on her. use in case of emergency . read carefully and follow directions http://www.tenetsofleykis.com/hail_mary.php
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well your only 15 so i hope you learned your lesson on what could happen.. You need to get a paternity test done b/c you did in fact wear a condom but it can happen were she can get pregnant ( so make sure its yours!!) but to be honest with ya your only 15 i would consider adoption b/c you got your whole life ahead of you... but to let you know there are great people out there that can't have children and that are willing to adopt and give it a great life!
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