What do you do if someone is tormenting you verbally and they'll be offended at the idea of anger management?
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Photon
ANSWERS: 6
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Well, I think I kind of understand what youre saying.. If its a friend/family member/lover then get professional help. Like a therapist that can hold group sessions or something. Other than that, get out.
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You pack your bags and leave. i am serious. next, the verbal assault will be physical assault. this is the mind of a controlling person. it will get worse. anger management class is not an option, because its like water on a fire and the controlling person hates fire extinguishers. they have to be in charge of everything and everybody's life. Once again, i say, pack your bags and leave. your life will always be tortured, if you do not leave, now.
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Give them an ultimatum- get help or lose you. I have had anger management (yes really! lol) and I will pass along some advice that I was given. Anger is usually a result of too much pent-up energy. I was told to do regular exercise, including 'something where I get to hit things'. I don't mean boxing or wrestling! Rather something like tennis or baseball or something like that. It's different for everyone though, so seeing a counsellor or going to anger management would help get to the cause of the anger.
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Based on the other answers that I've read people seem to be making a common assumption that you are referring to a jealous madman boyfriend or husband on the brink of physical assault. lol I'm not sure why, but it's interesting. Nobody really knows, you could be talking about your little 5 year old brother. A good answer that would apply to your situation specifically really can't be given without more facts to go on. My best answer based on the facts is just don't let people push you around, or talk to you like that, if the verbal abuse is at the point of harassment and nothing you do seems to help the cops can help.
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If I can walk away I will if they persue I will probably pay for them to get some new dental work.
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If this person does this often, it may be wise to cut ties with him or her.
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