A 22 year old girl has a cool 32 year old guy friend she parties with and hangs out with him all the time. Then the 32 year old guy sleeps with the 22 year old girl`s 18 year old little sister. What would you think of him? Should she talk to him again?
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No she should not cos he breached her trust by sleeping with her sister. I don't think that is a right thing to do.
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Put simply, Hello no, what a total creeper
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Is this a serious question. 18 is barely out of high school. It may be ok legally, but anyone with half a conscience would not approve. So no she should not have anything to do with him.
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The question doesn't elaborate whether or not there is a "more than friend" relationship between him and the older sister or whether the younger sister has a problem with him hanging out with the older sister. So far I don't see a problem.
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It sounds like a knife in the spine. It kind-of depends on how decietful he was when he did it, (like did he tell the 22 yo girl he wanted her sister). Actually...I don't think any logical scenario would make it right. Is this a specifically random question or are you asking how you should feel about a person you know? If so, take into consideration the answers given but put all of the factors into play and deside how you should see it.
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The two sisters need to discuss their feelings about what has happened. If the older sister is envious of the younger sister, or disappointed about the age difference, it may be wise to distance herself from the 32 year old guy.
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Hells to the NO.
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I would think he is an untrustworthy piece of shit. She should only talk to him in order to confess where she tossed his nutsack.
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hes a pedophile, she should keep talking to him if she likes pedophiles
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I think Transcendence is right, it is more between the two sisters than anything else. The 32 year old was only doing what most 32 year olds would do in that situation, a super hot 18 year old girl was up for it and he obliged. And what happened was between two consenting adults. The two sisters need to sit down and talk about their feelings together. The 32 year old guy did nothing wrong here.
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Her sister and the guy are both @&&holes.I wouldn't bother with him anymore.It would be a long time before I'd talk to my sister .
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A 32 y o man is ALMOST too old to date a 22 y o woman. He is MUCH TOO OLD to date an 18 y o woman. TOO OLD. And he's a sneak and a creep, too. No, NEITHER sister should ever speak to him again. (Maybe their mother or father would like his phone number, though!) The sisters have to talk to each other and try to rebuild a very broken relationship. Either that, or the older sister needs to dump the younger one for at least five years. EDITED JUNE 3: The more I think about this, the creepier it is. The guy sounds like a predator who was using the 22-year-old to get to the teen. If I were the parents of these women, I'd... well, there are a lot of things I might do. Scuzzball. And the teen is an idiot and needs some strong lessons in family loyalty and on putting some value on herself. No woman or girl should throw herself away on an unfaithful man. (Likewise, no man or boy should throw himself away on an unfaithful woman. Adjust as needed for orientation.) Infidelity is a person saying, "I want all of you, but I'm only giving you half (or a quarter, or a tenth) of me." Greedy and selfish!
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I find this question a bit retarded, is it a joke? What should you think of him? He's a lowlife piece of crap who has no respect for others or himself. Should she talk to him again? Not if she has any small amount of dignity and respect for herself and her family.
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Well lets think......NO!!!!!! how can you trust that cinda guy just a creep that i would never talk to again, and also really bad syster but anyone can make mistakes, still i would watch out for making such big ones
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Creep
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no because he's borderline pedophile.
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Why are people saying he is a pedophile? The girl is 18, and as far as I'm (and the US government) is concerned, that's a LEGAL ADULT. I sort of take offense to this because I have always dated older men. Guys my age are just entirely too immature and I have no interest in them. I don't know if it's grounds to stop talking. I mean, you guys aren't dating, right? So technically you don't have claims to him. Who knows, maybe they've been talking on the side the entire time and are attracted to each other. I'd try to sort the facts out first before crucifying.
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Okay, so "legally" he is NOT a pediphile. "Legal Adult" does not mean that she or any other 18 year old is emotionally mature enough to to see that he was strickly taking advantage of her. Does this person seem like a friend to you? Staying in contact with him only sends the messege to either or both that it was all okay. Is that what you want? Your sister needs to hear and see from you that this is not the type of attention the she needs from a man. And legal or not we should all know the difference between right and wrong.
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one the guy having sex with a women that is of the right age by law doesnt make him a peodophile so people need to stop throwing such words around and secondly where does it say that the guy is the 22 year olds boyfriend or that theyre seeing each other if they were then i would say she needs to get of that ****
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