How many girls here have done anal? i tried but couldn't go through with it...too much pain. I actually cried!

Did you use lubricants or is he too big.

I've done it quite a few times. The key is (to someone who hasn't done it before) is start off with small things; the worst thing you can do is go from never having had anything in your ass, to a cock in your ass. No wonder there was too much pain. You need to start with a simple finger. Then when you're comfortable with that, add another. Then another. Then maybe try a small toy. Or a buttplug. Go up in size from there. The anus needs to be exercised for a while before you start having anal sex. It's a very tight muscle that needs to be relatively loosened to be able to take a cock. I remember the first time I tried a finger in my ass and at the time that even hurt a little; I thought there was no way in hell I could ever try anal sex. But here I am doing it. And even when you do work up to anal sex things like positioning and lubrication are very important. You have to experiment with different positions to find the one that is most comfortable for you. And there's no such thing as 'too much' lube for anal sex. The worst thing you can do is not have enough lube because it will hurt like hell with it dry and can cause damage. And also try and remember to relax your anus too; it naturally contracts and you may not even be aware of it. Pushing a little helps to ease it in for him. Bottom line with anal when you're about to do it, is to go very slowly and use tons of lube. Don't just have him slide right in; he needs to either finger you there for a bit or use toys on you to make you aroused. And remember never to go from ass to pussy, that's not sanitary. When anal is done right it can be a very pleasureable experience. Good luck :)