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by Jacki Jam on December 5th, 2011
If he is open minded and chilled enough to let me unzip during the evening the hand job is usually a starter with the BJ to follow... all depends on his degree of nerve for letting me do it on impulse otherwise it's inevitably a 'goodnight' BJ in the car later on but if that's the limit of his daring it may be the only time he gets one as I might not pursue it again. A lot depends on how well we get on and size/attraction/energy etc...
either way I usually give one or the other, not fair to do nothing even on a first or 'only' date
by Veda on March 29th, 2008
Neither!! Those come later...
by sunshine on August 5th, 2009
Depends on the guy, sometimes it is a handshake with a pat on the back. sometimes it's a rub on his croch and a when can we do this again. Don't think it has ever been a hand job or a blow job without some good old fucking to go along with it. Yes I said it, I've had sex on the first date, many times it is followed by a second date and lots more sex.
by myhotwife on May 1st, 2010
I`m sorry, I just have to laugh at the people who still say no sex of any kind on the first date. If you are in fact an "adult" , go on a date with a nice, handsome man, who treats you well and doesn`t make you split the bill for dinner, then you should feel free to stroke, suck, fuck or do whatever you want to. Why waste his time or yours to find out if he is a superstud or a dud in bed?
by Babe488 on August 3rd, 2009
depending how well you know them.
by fallox on August 11th, 2009
None unless you just want him for sex. Hey, then why do you bother dating him? Just go directly to the bed...
by mandie on August 10th, 2009
b
by Anonymous on July 31st, 2009
Neither. I would like to get to know the person first.
by sweetallie on August 16th, 2010
Unless its just going to be a one night thing - probably neither (especially if i just met him). But if it's someone i've known for a while before dating, then i'd do either.
by down-azz-bitch on March 28th, 2008
BLOW JOB CUZ HAND JOBS R FOR WHEN PPL R AROUND AND THATS ALL U CAN GET AWAY WITH AT THE TIME.....
by Mentalmum is back on March 29th, 2008
Neither, not on a first date!
by Willdabeest on July 31st, 2009
Neither, unless you really want to.
by kirstym on August 3rd, 2009
2 early for that unless u usually do it
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