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by Anonymous on July 23rd, 2006

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I broke up with my girlfriend of 10 months because we had a long distance relationship and she was spending time with another guy. She says she knows she wants me now. I want her back too, but we're still long distance. Can I trust her?

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  • by suppcutieeeee on January 20th, 2007

    suppcutieeeee

    i'm in a long distance relationship too. its so damn hard to trust eachother isnt it? you gotta learn how to believe that she loves you for sure and like if you ever can, try flying out to visit her. it's the sweetest thing in the world. my boyfriend does that for me and its like incredible being with them even if it isnt even for a week.

    write her long letters
    and show her you need her
    and she will love you too

    and tell her you trust her because you believe what she says and if you doubt her

    ask her if she truely loves you

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  • by Anonymous on July 23rd, 2006

    Anonymous

    Thanks for the help. well basicly she had held the other guys hand and kissed him she admited to this. I had to break up with her, But I miss her so much and it seems here latley she realizes that she made a mistake to. I want to work things out, But im always afraid she will do it again.

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  • by Anonymous on July 23rd, 2006

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    This is the second question, concerning the same topic.

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  • by Mousy1 on July 23rd, 2006

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    Have you asked her if she has been unfaithful?
    Talk to her about it, if you can forgive her if she has been unfaithful then go for it. However be prepared, the trust normally doesn't come back if the other person has cheated.... Good Luck!

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  • by Answers101 on July 23rd, 2006

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    Based upon the given information that you've provided; unless, she's not seeing anyone else, then I would not advise seeing her again.

    Sometimes things happen for good reasons and perhaps, it was a good thing that your relationship initially failed.

    However, if you firmly believe that you can make this relationship work and she's NOT seeing anyone else exclusively, then you should give it another try.

    When you're dealing with love and people, there are no guarantees in life that anything will work, so it's a chance either way.

    Good luck!

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  • by Anonymous on July 23rd, 2006

    Anonymous

    Cannot give an answer, until you state why she is your ex. what happened??

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  • by Silvia on June 24th, 2008

    Silvia

    You probably can't trust her and admit it , you won't. But if your willing to be "blind" then give it another try but play it your way.

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  • by Blamed by myself... on July 14th, 2009

    Blamed by myself...

    well...do u love her? if yes, then whats stops you? trust or no? belive me, in my live it happened the same situation, and i'm the one who was that exactly girl, and belive me, untill now i'm trying to get this person back, untill now he regrets me, and it is so paitfull...i don't know how long my heart can go on with out him, but i will try to do all not possible to get him and his trust back to me.
    My advise to u, if that girl made a mystake, and really realized that, and blaming herself for that, if u really love her, then go ahead and give a chance.A chance for both of you.God knows maybe she is the one who should make you happy in ur life.Coz, as i understood you were happy together..right?then don't kill urself, and her..give a chance, and belive me she will not do the same thinks, mystake againe.coz human doing a mystake to not make it again.she loves you, and you love her...GIVE A CHANCE, DON'T WASTE A TIME.

    Wish you a very good luck!

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  • by rtdfrmr on December 24th, 2011

    rtdfrmr

    The very best predictor of future behavior is past behavior. Of course not.

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