Why is it so hard to be the bigger man?

because it takes the right genes and if you dont have them your sol. jk, but really its just cuase doing the right thing takes effort and doing what is natural and what you want is easier. but in the long run the right thing will have a better benfit (to yourself and others) (or at least i hope so lol)

Its a lifestyle bro. You represent yourself and everyone who respects who you are. No matter how hard it is you gain respect for every situation. And it is no secret that as a man all we truly care about is respect! Keep up the good work friend!

Because you have to overcome the natural tendency to think only of yourself and your own interests, and many people find that awfully difficult to do.

One word. . . . . . . . . . .E-G-O!

The less you think the other guy deserves it, the harder it is.

Because : sometimes ya get tired. or 'fed-up' to a breaking point.

because to be the bigger man one does not try to,it just happens because you are the bigger man,size dont matter,one can be the bigger man today and not tomorrow and vice versa,because you dont beat up the other guy in the pub and be the main attraction but accept his apology you are the bigger man,its hard but not impossible to achieve this in all situations and be the bigger man,but like i said its hard man,once in a while i might be the bigger man lol,but then again i have never thought of or tried to be the bigger man just be you treat others how you would like to be treated,all the best

because cultural rules state that it is stupid to do the right thing. Anyone who does will only live a penniless, lonely life.

Being 'the bigger man' requires geniune strength .. which is not really generally respected.

because not everyone can afford viagra ? ;-)

Well if u mean just males Men have a lot of testosterone and pride.

I find women have more pride tho?

I personally find it very easy to just remain unmoved by others heated issues i do have many things i am passionate about but they don't tend to match up with a lot of other people's passions so....hence not a lot of arguing is the result i guess. It's just hard for me to let someone else move my emotions around they are my emotions hands off.

If you have to ask, you should'nt try to be.

I don't find it particularly difficult.

Because when you're limited to Trojan Magnum XL's, all the other fun condoms are out of the question.

;)~

I am kind of short....

To be the bigger man, your brain sees itself as week and it is very hard for anyone to be the bigger man. Theres more about it in detail if you study physcology.

Because the presumptuous, stuck up perfumed stores in the mall don't carry our sizes, they make us buy two seats on an airplane, the cielings are always too low, and girls tend to fall for the skinny little crackhead movie stars. You'd think that we'd just "Hulk smash" our way through life, but we bigger people tend to feel that punching out the smaller people to get what we want is wrong, as well as just picking up and carrying off the supermodels to our love dens, not that we don't fantisize about it.

Who said it would be easy? That's the whole point.
It's NOT easy but you do it anyways.