This is the most moronic thing I have ever heard.

An employee can get hit by a bus the day after they start the job and that is more of a possiblity than just finding a love across the pond and moving.

It's a job, not a marriage. This employer needs a reality check. The employer can dump your ass out any time they see fit, but the employee has to stay forever? I don't think so.

I would ask in return, "Does that mean I have to agree not to date ANYONE? It's possible to meet someone in person even more easily than online, and you can't dictate what I do on my own time unless you are going to pay me for that time as well." I don't think prospective employers are allowed to ask that, anyway. Are they offering sign-on and longevity bonuses if you agree to that?

"Have a nice day."

i would tell them they need to either by you a mail order briad or pay really good so you can buy things to accupy your time...how do they know you on line date??

tell them to blow you.
and dont take the job that invades ur personal life