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Personally? If he can handle his booze- as in, he is clearly not drunk and within tolerable alcohol levels as far as the law is concerned- I wouldn't be concerned about the drinking and driving. I WOULD be pissed that he said he was on his way home and stopped for at least a beer. If you're on your way home, you should be in the car, without any stops!
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Yeah to... Tell him to party at home (with you), it's safer that way yo...
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Yes, it's okay. You're expecting and he has a lot of nerve stressing you out and putting himself (and others)in danger at such a crucial time. Don't kill him or anything, but I would be pissed too.
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In my experience, the more you care about someone, the angrier you get when they mess up. If you didn't care, you wouldn't
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completely justified. i hope he's okay though, and you too. all the best
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not at all - all the feelings would be mixed up together!
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I would be more than pissed hun! Good luck!!
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Yes, you are rightfully upset, Lady. But remember that being pregnant can enhance your emotions a bit. But you are rightfully upset.
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I know you live in Florida and in Sanford they have an Attorney that specializes in DUI. He gets them off because the manufacturer of the breathalyzer will not produce information to process case. If they suspect he is drinking they suggest not to "blow." But if he does, this link will help you/him going forward. Tell him to only speak when spoken too, and to be respectful. If he is impaired, tell him not to stand in front of the Police cruiser, it usually has a video cam which will be produced in court as evidenc. Sorry I didn't answer the question, I am just more worried about the legal than domestic right now. http://www.duiblog.com/2005/06/09/breathalyzer-manufacturers-wont-tell-how-they-work/
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yep...you have every right ...he has scare the love of his life and he should have known better than to drink and drive (even if its only a couple)... now make sure you give him a good slapping when he gets home!
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Reminds me of when my dad got ran off the road (not his fault either) but still was suspected of a DUI. He then proceeds to refuse a breathalizer and requests a blood test. Either way.....he was awarded the DUI. Regardless of how much you drink...you are always at risk of breaking the law.
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Sure can. Be mad all you want. Be glad he's not hurt and I hope he hasn't gotten a DUI...
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Its understandable to be very upset with him. However I must say he might need your support now more than ever. May he live long and prosper.
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If he was drinking & driving, you're damn right you do. Not only did he put his safety, and that of others on the road in danger, he also put your financially security at risk. I have a MAJOR problem with people who drink & drive. If you can't afford to take a cab after you have been drinking, you can't afford to drink. If you are too stupid to get a cab, you're too stupid to drink. You want to get drunk? Do it at home. You say it's no fun to drink at home? Fine, either have a designated driver, or call a cab! No excuses, no exceptions!
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Yes, you should feel angry.
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You have every reason to be annoyed. He could have had the guts to tell you he was gonna stop for a beer oir 2 with the boys after work instead of leading you to believe he was coming straight home then pulling off that stunt. Hope you gave him a good piece of your mind.
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at least be glad that he's okay more than being pissed
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i think you have a right to be upset...because really it is not mature at all for him to drink and then drive. but you have also got to think about how he was in an accident and has hopefully learned his lesson. if it was a big accident then you need to be there for him..but else you can be a little mad but not overly pissed.
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you should be really really pissed ~sorry to hear that~
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Seriously, take care of him and the car, then you can assess if he has a problem with alcohol. Sounds like you already know this. If he is willing to get help and moderate or quit drinking, keep him if not, get out and save yourself years of heartbreak. It is irresponsible to drive if you have had too much to drink. We have all done it, doesnt make it right.
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yes
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Don't be too hard on him since he's already in bad condition (is he?). You're ok to be pissed but it must already give him a lesson in future.
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fear is usually at the root of anger. you were pissed because he has been hurt and the being under the influence during an accident isnt good. besides he said hes coming home. i understand that too.
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It doesn't really matter how many beers he's had, if he's even only a little intoxicated, he shouldn't be on the road. The accident may not have been his fault, but if he decides to drink and drive again he could be seriously hurt or killed if an accident happens. Don't be "ridiculusly pissed" with him, just show him how much you love him and value his life. Warn him about the dangers, but comfort him. Don't make your hubby think you're feeling really resentful.
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Yes it is okay first of all for worrying you when you really do not need stress. I also hope for the fact he was drink driving and has put your futures in jeopardy., as well as his and other peoples lives.
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I'd be pissed. Especially if he didn't mention he planned on stopping to get a drink and then went so long without atleast letting you know. It's not okay to let you worry. Plus regardless the accident wasnt his fault, what if it could have been avoided?
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ABSOLUTELY NOT.....why wouldn't you be......I think that what makes the difference.....is how you handle the situation.....good luck....I usually let my strong emotion get the best of me and say things I can never take back....
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Whoa, Nelly! Hold your horses! One thing you can't recycle is wasted time, so be glad he's home safe and sound. In fact, get on your knees just to show him how much you care!
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you should be thankful he did not hurt himself, or anyone else. dont stay mad forever...its not worth it.
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dude you are so right to be mad. when my boyfriend does that to me i take off to a nice bar and hang out over there until i get a call from him asking where i am. then i tell him im on my way, then i stay a little longer until he calls again.
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While not judging, he should think of the expense of a ticket etc.. if he gets tested. Even if he can handle it, he could still be arrested for DUI.
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No bitch chill!!! The nigga had a beer or two, how does that make any difference?? After two beers, any real man should be able to do figure eights in the front yard without hitting a single object, let alone drive home safely...so the fact that he may have had a beer or two makes no difference...so chill bitch!
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Only if you know that he had a beer or two BEFORE the crash. If it was after, I couldn't blame him.
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yeah thats completly okay, i mean as long as he wasn't hurt or anything... but he should have came home when he said he was, not stopped for any beer.
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not for the accident, but for drinking yes
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Maybe he had to get wasted before he can come home to you.
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