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  • Well, in my opinion there is no point of going along with a relationship in which such things are involved... if she is cheating and you are sure of it, then walk out of relationship
  • she's currently cheating as in having an affair with someone? Then she doesn't respect you. I would leave her. If she slipped up and made out with someone then maybe you two could salvage the relationship
  • My girlfriend of almost one year just admitted to me yesterday that she cheated on me with somebody I was suspecting all along and let me tell you that I'm heartbroken as hell too right now. I feel your pain.
  • Dude if your girlfreind is cheating on you with a chick and that chick is hot you should have a threesome with them and put it on the internet.
  • Let her go. She is spending every day, every minute, decieving you. Telling you she's going places she's not, making up alibis with friends, all day. Zero respect. No basis for further discussion. Do not pass Go, do not collect $200.00, just get out of that.
  • She said she kissed this guy 2 times. Then she said she was sorry and to please forgive her. She said she had no contact with the guy since we had our talk. Then I find she blocked her phone. She went with her friends to an event at the arena here and she texted me pictures of the trucks-it was a truck show. The event ended at 10:30 PM and she did not call me until 11:30 PM and said she was just on her way home because, of too many cars in the parking lot. I saw in her e-mail a picture of the guy she took in her car that night. She lied...
  • She's cheating with a guy...
  • I asked her this Tuesday if she was keeping anything from me or anything and she said "No".
  • cut your losses...save yourself the heartache?
  • BREAK UP WITH HER!!!, or go see a councler with her if you feel like you guys really are willing to work on making things better... or on her part at least.
  • What can you do? You can not handle it! N.B. According to me you can!
  • Once a cheater always a cheater. Break up with her and learn the mistakes you made, don't do them again. Find another girl friend. Stop being so emotional over it and move on. That's part of growing up. Never look back, never go back with her and forget her. Just do not make the same mistakes again or the same thing will happen.
  • was this anywhere near rochester--- new york...???
  • You mean you just found out? Man! 8 years and you haven't asked her to marry you? I'm surprised that she's even still hanging 'round with you...
  • I did ask her, she never wanted to, she said she did not want to get married anymore. She was married before, but she did not want to ever marry me.
  • I've been w/ my b/f for almost 7 yrs. I've never cheated - not even close- but she may be missing the excitement of a new relationship. She probably loves you, but I think she's caught up in the "romantics" of the attention & mystery of someone new. I'm not defending her or trying to make you feel bad - I think you should break up with her - I'm just trying to give you an idea what might be going through her head. She may still be immature: not appreciating what she has & choosing a short thrill over a sure, steady relationship like yours. Break up with her, move on. If she grows up in the next few months/yrs, maybe you two will reconnect & get back together. Whatever you do, please don't kill her - or this other guy.
  • No matter how badly it hurts - be rid of her. This is an 'almost' relationship - 'almost' good enough so you don't end it. It stops you from finding a full relationship with someone who is your trusted friend and partner. Don't walk away - RUN! And avoid them completely.
  • She's currently seeing someone, not a slip up.
  • I think you should move on..without her.
  • Sorry to hear. First a few questions: Is she currently cheating on you? How do you know? How long has she been cheating on you?
  • I talked with My girlfriend's Daughter today at lunch. We were shopping alone and she just brought it up. She believes her Mom is cheating on me with the guy as well...what should I do????? Thanks
  • How do you know? Are you sure?
  • If you have been together for 8 years without moving on to marriage, maybe she just couldn't commit solidly with you or just got tired of waiting. I'd say if you are positive and it is something you can't handle, then maybe it's time to move on.
  • omg you poor thing. We'll it depends, do you really love her or is it just about territory, if you really love her is this her first time cheating or is this a pattern for her, ....In other words, it's not that simple. There are many things to consider and only you would know. But I will tell you if you are a good guy, you deserve much better. I know women can be a "hot mess", but there are great ones out here who would appreciate you. Best wishes and keep your head up!!
  • try strangling yaself !,.,.,............ and if that don't help much try this http://pron.com just to get ya started, on ya knew life of freedom ! the JAPS are fukktastik !!!!!!!!
  • Steer clear of your emotions the best you can and do something you should've done a long time ago; forget about her. It doesn't matter how much you love her - and "I can't handle it" surely states that you do - since the only thing that you should be thinking of is how much she loves YOU, man. And let me tell you: she doesn't. Her level of interest in you has plummeted all the way down so low that she is actually not even interested in you, seeing that she's cheating on you (the one's who care for you can't cheat!) I'm guessing you know what to do, but let me tell you one more time. Move on. Forget about her, time will heal. And next time, make sure it doesn't take you 8 years to see the situation as it is.

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