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by Anonymous on July 17th, 2006

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I cheated on my girlfriend of almost a year last night by kissing some girl because I was unsatisfied with our relationship. After I cheated, I realized that my girlfriend is the one and that I would never do it again. Should I tell her?

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  • by Kate1984 on February 4th, 2008

    Kate1984

    Tell her..speaking from experience.
    I had someone cheat on me and although i might not have found out,i did.
    I could tell something was wrong big time. I could tell he was guilty of something. If he had told me it would have been easier.

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  • by sweetpea on September 26th, 2007

    sweetpea

    If it was only a kiss? Then I would come clean so you can go on with a clear conscience.

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  • by Deep Blue on February 4th, 2008

    Deep Blue

    If it's going to eat you alive, then tell her. If you are good at keeping a secret, then it's a minor thing, so don't tell her. If there is ANY chance she may find out then tell her.

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  • by Miss Anubis loves this season on February 4th, 2008

    Miss Anubis loves this season

    Its better she hears it from you than anyone else, if you're lucky she might be a kind woman and agree to give you a second chance. Pray she is. I never would.

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  • by cher on January 26th, 2008

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    NO!!!you made a mistake but at least you know what you want now. by telling her you will hurt her - she's not going to trust you anymore ad you risk the chance that she will leave you. if she finds out -she won't trust you any more - she'll be hurt - and she may leave you. so you better pray that she doesn't find out. and make sure it never happens again.

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  • by Anonymous on July 18th, 2006

    Anonymous

    Tricky one.
    Conventional wisdom says that you should never build a relationship on dishonesty- BUT I think you have to weigh up the pros and cons here. It may ease your guilt to tell her, but is there a chance (I mean iif you are REALLY serious about making this work) that you will actually cause her more pain by telling her than you will by firgetting about it? Consider what is best for her.
    If there's a chance that she will find out anyway (e.g. if she knows the girl) you may have to come clean, just so that she hears it from you. Be prepared for the risk that she may be very hurt and unforgiving. But if not, you need to think it through carefully. You may do more harm by telling her than by not telling her. Honesty is usually, but not always, the best policy.
    Be careful.

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  • by Mr. McClister on July 17th, 2006

    Mr. McClister

    Yes, honestly you should simply because if she is truly the one for you you shouldn't harbor any lies that could effect the relationship. Tell her the truth and then you will she if she feels the same way about you. Good Luck.

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  • by Anonymous on January 26th, 2008

    Anonymous

    tell her when your married.

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  • by Kat on October 19th, 2009

    Kat

    Not a good idea to tell her. You have realised that it is wrong and you say you will never do it again. It could cause trouble in your relationship.

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  • by Be_DeLiCiOuS on October 11th, 2009

    Be_DeLiCiOuS

    Tell her. otherwise you're gonna sit there feeling guilty and it WILL take its toll on your relationship! If she breaks up with you, then you do deserve it and hopefully it'll teach you a lesson. If she doesn't dump you, just remember that Karma WILL come back and bite you in the ass one day.

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  • by SABOTEUR on September 13th, 2009

    SABOTEUR

    Some Things Are Better Left Unsaid

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  • by asweetguy4u2know saya R.I.P Nelson on January 26th, 2008

    asweetguy4u2know saya R.I.P Nelson

    Yes you should tell her. First of all if all that happened was klissing then technically you didn't cheat. There would have had to be alot more going on than a simple kiss for it to really be considered cheating.

    That however doesn't mean what you did was right or ok though. It was still wrong because of the fact that it could have led up to a hell of alot more. Tell her what happened and if she is an understanding person then all should be ok. Bwetter to get it off your chest now than let it fester and have her find out months or years later.

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  • by bugmann on July 19th, 2006

    bugmann

    You can do anything as it is not what you do but how you do it that makes the difference

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  • by knownothing on October 19th, 2009

    knownothing

    NO! Telling her will only cause her pain. You probably want to tell her so that you can relieve guilt that you're feeling, which is selfish. Just don't do it again!

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  • by Ron C on October 19th, 2009

    Ron C

    If it was only a kiss, forget about it and move on. I've kissed girls at parties when my wife was present and never got into trouble. Of course there was the time at a Halloween party where a girl dressed as a ghost was sitting on my lap when my wife arrived. That wouldn't have been a problem but the girl said that the sheet was the only thing she was wearing and I was trying to find out if she was lying. (she wasn't)

    There were a few words (most with four letters) from my wife. Then we went home and had make-up sex. The end.

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  • by AnonymousGirl on October 11th, 2009

    AnonymousGirl

    I personally think you should tell her. Relationships should be built on honesty, not deceit. Why were you unsatisfied with your relationship anyway? You should probably figure that one out before you tell her.

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  • by pooponme on October 19th, 2009

    pooponme

    that's a really touchy subject
    i think you should tell her
    BUT just skip the part about kissing someone else and tell her shes the one!

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  • by HOUSTONLONELY on October 11th, 2009

    HOUSTONLONELY

    if nothing happened like sexually, i really would keep it to my self and not tell her/ him,, what she dont know , wont hurt,, right...

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  • by TWIST on October 19th, 2009

    TWIST

    Continue on with the lie. You will be unsatisfied, yet again. Did she tell you?

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  • by Anonymous on October 19th, 2009

    Anonymous

    you need to tell her. its only fair now think about it.....if she ever did it too you, you would want to know....right?

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  • by pajamamama on October 19th, 2009

    pajamamama

    tell her dont lie it was only a kiss but to her a kiss may be the most intimate thing she enjoys, say your truly sorry for what you did and prove to her it wont happen again.

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  • by booooooo on October 19th, 2009

    booooooo

    before you tell her remove any weapons within reach ex. guns knifes ect. and make sure you bought her a car or something first .

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  • by Anonymous on October 19th, 2009

    Anonymous

    OF COURSE you should tell her. If I was her, and i found out someother way than you not telling her, then I would be even more mad! Honesty is the best way for a relationship. Tell her, and maybe you guys still have a chance.

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