ANSWERS: 11
  • It's a guy thing! It does not mean he's not attracted to you. It could make him desire you more! Lots of guys do it. When he gets more mature some day he probably will not do this anymore. However, there is real strong peer group pressure. (All my friends do it, it's something I do with my buddies etc.)
  • i agree with Rollie,or maybe the guy just isnt satisfied with you.
  • it's a just a guy thing....don't hold it against him. all guys do it. what you should do is the next time he pops in a tape or says hey, i'm going to the titty bar, say gimme 5minutes, i'm going with you. you never know, it could be just as much a turn on for you as it for him and take your bedroom romps to a whole new level. doesn't hurt to try it.....
  • Going to strip clubs and watching porn does not automatically mean your s/o is not attracted to you. What you need to do is have a heart-to-heart talk with him. DO NOT accuse him, just tell him you want to understand. And it won't hurt to try to watch or go to the club once or twice yourself, but if you aren't comfortable doing so it's ok to say no.
  • So here's where my image as a liberal, open-minded modern woman completely deserts me. If my husband started importing porn magazines I'd swoop them up, burn them and then attempt to rebuild my respect for him as a human being. They're calling youngsters today Generation Sex and it's not hard to work out why. Thanks to the Internet, sex has never been so readily accessible both in cyber space and real life. The popular belief, first put forward in the 70's is that a liberated society should embrace and indulge all manner of sexual desire for the benefit of mankind. I'm not so sure. Indeed I'm sick and tired of pretending that being assaulted daily by sexualized images of women doesn't bother me. To watch my little girl grow up in a world where it's still acceptable for her sex to be reduced to masturbatory stereotypes worries me deeply. It's ridiculous to imagine that such imagery exists in a vacuum and has no impact on how women are treated in the wider world.
  • get down to a tricky dickies club and go have some fun yourself.
  • Don't worry - He's probably thinking about it too......
  • I dont like strip clubs, wasted money. im not a big porno fan, but I will watch it to get the "job" done faster. This does not mean a man in not attracted to you. It may mean you are not giving it up as much as he wants, but you need to speak to him about that.
  • Say something to him if it hurts you. I doubt it means he cares less about you. It's not just a guy thing though, women watch porn as well, it's just not considered socially acceptable for them too.
  • man... Everytime I catch my bf watching porn.. It makes me Hurt deep inside... I tried talking to him about it but he says he wants his own privacy. It sucks cuz he told me he would never do it again. And I asked and he said no. So I got curious and I found porn. I got really upset that he lied to me. And now it is really hard for me to trust him. He told me not to worry about it. But I do. I asked him if he thinks about me and he said that it is impossible to think of something else besides what he sees. I mean what's wrong with him. It makes me feel like I'm not good enough.
  • The vast majority of normal, healthy men enjoy porn, whether or not they admit it. It has no bearing on how he feels about you any more than it would mean he is not attracted to you when he is watching football. Do you think he will run off with a football player? It's no more likely that a man would have a serious interest in a stripper or a porn actress, so get over it.

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