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  • Yes! I really do think it shows that he doesnt really care about how you feel!
  • I think crying may be a defence mechanism and us men do not understand it so we walk away...I've just read this ? out to my wife and she agrees both ways. + :o)
  • Giving a sarcastic remark like " whatever " it show how he feels about that. So ofcourse, meaning oh, well or I dont care. Which results into really not caring for the way you feel, or your feelings in general. Just another typical dick head. Excuse my french =]
  • You would have to ask him but maybe he feels your tears are manipulative?
  • Not sure that it shows he doesn't care, but I feel that some people just don't know how to deal with emotions properly and find it easier to run away than to deal with a problem at hand.
  • It might be a sign that he doesn't have any coping skills in this area.
  • It does seem to represent a certain amount of callousness or uncaring, but that is merely my opinion. You know him better than we do - is he usually quite loving and tender? Does he treat you kindly and with compassion at other times when you are hurt? All of the men I have dated have become visibly bothered and/or upset if I ever cried in front of them. Based on these experiences, if I was to date a man who's reaction to my being upset was to say "Whatever" and to walk away, I would undoubtedly be under the impression that he was uncaring and nasty. I wouldn't want to date someone like that. I hope it all works out for you.
  • I'd say so.Then again,maybe you're "the girl who cried wolf".
  • It means he is not in touch w/his emotions going back to how he grew up & what type of emotional environment it was. He walks away because he is UNCOMFORTABLE with you SHOWING your emotions.

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