by Lydia on March 16th, 2008

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My bf just told me that while out with his friends on Friday, they (his friends) took Ecstacy. I don't like his friends anyway but now I REALLY don't like them. Am I just being over dramatic? What if they pressure him in to taking some?

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  • by Sweet T on March 16th, 2008

    Sweet T

    Your B/F, make his own choices, it has nothing to do with who he is around. If he didnt like drugs, he wouldnt do them, period.

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  • by Koolaid on September 10th, 2008

    Koolaid

    I wouldn't worry about it, unless he starts doing it a lot.

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  • by AndieCatastrophe on June 30th, 2008

    AndieCatastrophe

    I doubt he was pressured into it and I wouldn't freak out on him until you try it and know what it's all about.

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  • by Red Archer on June 11th, 2008

    Red Archer

    or keep on him, they might pressure him to take something much more deadly than Ecstacy.

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  • by Peetee on June 11th, 2008

    Peetee

    You have every right to be worried. And if he had a brain he would put you before any drugs. Good luck.

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  • by Nathan on June 11th, 2008

    Nathan

    Read up on the drug, get informed. Have him do the same (Try Erowids, Wikipiedia to start). Let him know your thoughts on the subject. Let him know *WHY* you don't want him taking it (what *IS* your reasoning for not taking it?) If he decides for himself to take it, so be it, so long as it is an informed decision it is not one you should feel bad about.

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  • by dvskidsec on June 10th, 2009

    dvskidsec

    Ecstacy is not really that big of a deal, respect his decision to control his own life if he's generally a safe/responsible person than he'll take care of himself.

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  • by Anonymous on January 27th, 2009

    Anonymous

    he probely already took it with them.your friend reflect you

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  • by The Chief on July 3rd, 2008

    The Chief

    You're NOT being over dramatic.

    If he IS 'pressured' into taking some, then he is a moron, like his 'friends'.

    Don't be surprised/shocked to find out he already has taken the drug, too.

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  • by TeaBerry on February 8th, 2009

    TeaBerry

    If your boyfriend does things because his friends make him feel peer pressure, you have a lot more to worry about. Talk to him about it. Ask him why he did it, if he plans on doing more drugs, what precautions he took and what knowledge he has of the drug or any other drugs he intends to take.
    Remember, just because it's illegal doesn't mean he's going to die or get addicted if he does them. He obviously wanted to try it for one reason or another, so keep an opened mind about it and discuss your concerns.

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  • by Adz3r0 on February 8th, 2009

    Adz3r0

    If you love your boyfriend, you've got every right to be pissed. You should consider leaving him.

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  • by Tsamaya is on semi-retirement on February 8th, 2009

    Tsamaya is on semi-retirement

    what pressure?....and really, are you trying to protect him or yourself while using his welfare as an excuse!!!!!

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  • by prof. mes solzhenitsy on March 16th, 2008

    prof. mes solzhenitsy

    Pressure him,on your part, not to take if that damned "pressure" works as you've mentioned repeatedly!

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