My ex-husband had his drivers license suspended for non payment of child support. He also is a hair dresser who owns his own hair salon. He currently has 50% custody of our daughter and drives her to school 50% of the time. How to I report this matter?
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if he takes her to school 1/2 the time why do you want to be mean and report him. that would mean that you would have to take her all the time unless you dont have anything to do when he takes her. but be careful of making problem for him because he might have some dirt on you. if you piss him off he might get you back.
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You sound vindictive....you should burn his hair salon down...that'll show him!
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I don't understand what you wish to report. If he owes for past child support, it is strange that they are not aware (and that you have not reported all ready) that he owns a business from which they could garnish his 'wages'. What does the custody and driving to school have to do with it? I am not sure what the situation has been, but it would seem that if he has 50% custody that he should not have to pay child support. If he is a good father to your child, you should be happy with that. If he owes you money from the past, and is not paying it, you must take it through the family courts or local Department of Human Services office.
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Talk to your divorce/custody lawyer. Also ask the family court to appoint an advocate for the child.
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Why did they suspend his license for non payment of child support? Surely they should be looking into his business on how he can pay, not taking his license away so he has no way to see his daughter
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Being a hairdresser is a very serious offence.
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Do you have a lawyer who could contact your x, or x's lawyer, reminding him of penalties for driving w/o license, & how his daughter would be if he was arrested in front of her? That is where I would start. If not, do you have a relationship with him, that is civil enough for the two of you to talk about it? If not, go to the local police station, and discuss the situation with them. You don't want your daughter actually in his car, when he is pulled over, so if the police will be wanting to assist you, you should plan with them when & how this goes down. Take all relevant paper work with you when you to go the police.
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Take you and daughter to his Hair salon frequently, and stop the revenge that is just hurting your daughter. There is obviously more to this situation. What do you really want, more time, more money, revenge, to shame the father, the hair salon, for the daughter to love you more then the father. Hate breeds Hate Forgiveness breeds Love Keep this is matter for the Court,family counseling
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Report what? They suspended his license so obviously they know he owes some child support. What I don't understand is how it even gets that far. They know all that info so they should know where he works etc. to garnish his wages. Does he owe you back child support? I agree you have 50/50 custody so why is he paying child support? He can still drive on a suspended/restricted license as long as has the proper filings in his state to do so. Meaning, he is doing what he is supposed to do to take care of the reason his license was suspended (i.e. child support). I personally think that's the dumbest thing to suspend there license for non-payment...don't get me wrong it is not right to not pay for your child, but how is he supposed to go to work if he doesn't have a license (guess you won't get the child support then). That defeits the purpose.
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Take movies of his actions and notify your attorney.
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There is something missing from the facts. If your husband has custody 50% of the time, he would not owe child support. He is supporting his child by the 50% custody arrangement.
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I feel most of you are missing the point that the initiater of the question was inquiring of. Instead of replying to her question, seems there is little banter against her ( I wonder if the replies are from dead beat fathers/mothers). I happen to be a male custodial parent and in the same situation. My ex wife owes me child support and I had her license suspended. Why would someone do this? I would not say it is being vindictive since the capable parent is not doing what was court ordered, having their license suspended is one small step in the right direction towards justice in the matter. They cannot reinstate their license until Support payments are caught up in full. As for reporting the offender to the Police for commiting a legal crime of driving on a suspended license - that is unknown to me as well. In FL - the person driving while on a susp. license can be arrested on the spot. That is NOT something I want my 8 year old child to be witness of.
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I am confused! Is it possible to have a driving license suspended for non payment of child support??? Surely, by taking away a source of income (ie, driving to work) there will be less chance of any child support being paid? I am confused - it seems to me that a driving license should only be withdrawn for driving penalties! Also, if he has 50% custody, isn't he already paying for her well being for 50% of the time?
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is it possible for just you to drive you kid to school.
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I think child services would be interested in a parent driving his child with a suspended license. I don't know if you want to go that route. They would possibly look at both parents and ask you to drive 100% of the time. I know you wouldn't mind, though. I would try my private attorney, if there is one. I would also contact the DMV and ask if there is a procedure or consequences for known individuals driving minors with suspended licenses. Maybe a court facilitator in the courthouse or "We the People" can help.
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