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  • If someone has quit talking to you because of something that you have done and they won't tell you what you've done to make them feel that way, I believe that they most likely think that it's too obvious to tell you in the first place. It's kind of like, their way of telling you," You should already know the answer to it, so why should I tell you." Just let it pass and move on if you can't figure it out. There's no need in wasting time wondering why someone doesn't want to talk. All it will do is cause more aggravation and more headaches. Keep your head up. :)
  • It could be just an easy excuse to not talk to you, but if not, give it time. All things come out in time-- let it go for now, to keep trying will just make things worse.
  • Part of "not talking" is that silent treatment meant to hurt you back, because they are feeling hurt. Don't let it get to you! If you act like it isn't bothering you they will come around to see what is up with you!
  • I have experienced alot of situations where people just stop talking to me. Some women and some men. When I sat down and wrote all the people in my life that stopped suddenly any communication, I saw that there were a few things in common. 1.) They all were either best friends, in love, or very very close to me. 2.) They felt betrayed in some way 3.) They eventually talked with me again. All I can say is look at what emotion comes up for You when the energy stops. Tackle it, feel it, stare it in the eye. Such a strong like can also create a strong dislike. I have always apologized or thanked whoever stopped talking to me. I always feel grateful for the shared experience we had. For me it often brought up disappointment and rejection. So I ask...when have I been disappointed in myself? When have I rejected myself? Profound healing can take place. Why do they stop talking...most likely you brought up something in them to look at and they didnt like it. If they dont like you, they don't like themselves. Why stop talking unless your in denial of your own fears and emotions, which may to them be worth protecting instead of feeling and communicating what's really there.
  • I have a similar situation where people i am good friends with suddenly stop talking to me.. and i dont know why?.. i know i havent said anything bad about them to anyone and we havent argued - they just stop talking to me. When i attempt to talk they just dont respond.. im wondering what i am doing wrong and why they are acting like that. Because i know i havent done or said anything it makes me not want to ask them whats the problem? as a result - we dont talk for ever?.. any suggestions what im doing wrong as a person?.. i am happy go lucky girl and think i give sound and good advice to friends.. i feel there must be something about me where people tell me their dark dingy secrets and then stop talking to me?.. Help!

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