If u think u love someone, but u want them to do some stuff that they dont do (like touch u more, be more sweet and patient, talk to u more, be more romantic and suprising) then do u really love that person? Or is there a such thing as a perfect person?
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That is a really great question! In reality, no one is perfect, so you cant expect to meet someone and to love everything about them. I suppose in the end its all about finding a happy medium, that works for both people within the relationship. Just because you may not like a characteristic of a person, doesnt mean you dont love them!
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I can love them if there are things that I like, but they do not want to do for me.
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First off - There is no such thing as a "perfect Person" just seemingly perfect couples when the right two people connect. People are who they are and no one can change that. I'm touchy feely but know many people who aren't and never will be. Patience comes with age. I was with a guy for 3 years and I can't really say what was ever on his mind because he wasn't the talking type. And as for being 'more romantic' some people are and some never will be at all. Being in love with someone is more than a feeling - being in love means you want nothing for the other person but happiness.
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I think before you ask yourself this, you should ask yourself if you fulfill all these criteria. It's hypocrisy to expect something from someone else if you aren't willing to put in the effort to do it yourself. Are you sweet, patient, romantic and surprising? If you aren't, perhaps if you change your significant other will see this change, and change accordingly.
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Well, maybe he is just that way. My fiance doesn't like to kiss or hug or hold hands, in public, he is shy, he does all this when he feel comfortable, he is a quiet and private person, and that is O.K. with me, because I know he loves me, that is the way he is, you should have a talk with him and tell him how you feel, I did and he improved a little.
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Wow that is a really good question! But if i were you, coming from my own current situation, things are so much better and so much sweeter if you take things slowly. Because it is easy to mix up your lustful feelings for love. I think that this is a cause for lots of breakups. But if you take things slowly and really get to know the person before you automatically jump to the "i love you" stage, things are so much better, you will know if this is the type of person for you, you will know if you are compatibale, and if you are not, you will not have jumped in deep enough into the relationship that it would have to end ugly. You could still be friends if it ended on a decent note. But no one is perfect. Even my soul mate who i took things slowly with, still has flaws. as do i and as does everyone else.
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