It's common. There are many reasons for it. Mostly hangups and issues relating to past experiences and self esteem issues.

no i would let her just blow me then

i guess i just like giving guys blow jobs and making them happy.

no its not wierd, some girls may find it awkward to have a guy give her oral.

I would think it's because she'd never been done by a guy who knew how. Or that she has some vaginal infection and doesn't want to tell you.

Yes. I need to give.

I think it is quite common actually. A lot of girls are very sensitive down there and oral sex is actually uncomfortable unless done absolutely perfectly. Another reason that happened to me when I was young was simply that she had her period and therefore didnt want me down there! I figured it out eventually, but not after a few stupid "why nots?" ....

It's up to her, she just may need the right person to try gently on her. But then why worry, if she wants to give are you complaining, I imagine not. She may just have had a bad experience or really not like it, we are all different and there is not one rule for everyone.

That is definitely weird. Makes me think of the saying "There are starving kids in Africa." She should appreciate that you wanna give her a pleasure better than actual intercourse!

I had a gf once like that. I think it was an abuse issue when she was younger but she would never tell me about it.

I think it is rather unusual. Most girls love it and can't get enough. But not all girls have to have the same opinion on that and the tastes are different.

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Not "weird", per se -- she's probably just feeling self-conscious about her body.

Opposite for me. I love receiving it, but never give it.

I don't think it's weird only because even today, many women consider that area to be "gross". Now, as much as I love to "eat in", if she's one of the rare women who knows what she's doing and she just wants to take care of my cock without my having to do any work? Who am I to deny her such pleasure?

it is a bit off putting i have been with two of those types of girls. one though that it couldnt possibly have felt better than fingering (her old partner was horrible at it), the second an ex bit her while going down bc he though she would like it and she was traumatized. I wore down the first and she worshiped my tongue however the second never let me get more than a few licks in before she made me stop. it troubled me greatly at the time lol

As a woman, I know I find it slightly off-putting if a guy doesn't want to receive oral, since giving blowjobs is my favourite thing. But I am one of those girls who doesn't like to receive oral much. I HATE the fact that if you aren't that into oral, you just get people saying that you are uptight, or worried about how you look and smell down there, etc etc, as if not having a preference for cunnilingus represented some kind of deep psychological issues. I like oral, very occasionally. But I'm not keen. I love being fingered and having intercourse, but oral is not a big thing for me. I don't have hang-ups about my vagina, I think it is great, nor do I worry about taste or smell, I am happy for my boyfriend to give me the odd lick down there. It is just that the whole thing or oral sex being like the best sex a woman can have is alien to me. I've had great oral sex, which has given me sensations that were up there with the best I've ever had. But then I've had the same from really good manual stimulation and on the whole I prefer the sensations you get from being touched or having intercourse rather than mouth and tongue. My first boyfriend wouldn't give me oral, because he got cold sores and was terrified of giving me genital herpes. So he had become incredibly good at fingering and I loved it. That is still the ultimate stimulation for me, the absolute best. It is a shame most men focus on oral and don't learn to use their hands better.