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by mrs.clean09 on March 7th, 2008

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Im 17 suffering from a broken heart, thought it was over when i found a new man but he only did the same. how can i fix this when life dose not seem right with out "him" ?(i no this sounds stupide sorry)

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  • by Midgardsormr on March 7th, 2008

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    I am about to give you some tough advice to follow. Do not get into another relationship until you've learned to love yourself as much as you've loved these men. Heartbreak will come, and it's awful. If you define yourself by relationships, though, you'll never stop suffering.

    Once you begin to value yourself properly, you will have a much better perspective on your relationships and be less likely to commit your heart to someone too quickly. Be *you* instead of you-and-... or worse, ...-and-you. Any guy who doesn't find that attractive isn't worthy of your time to begin with.

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  • by Anonymous on March 7th, 2008

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    no, it is not stupid. listen to Midgardsormr says RIP Gary (long aka! :D )... that is exactly what i am doing now. i used to have one bf after the other... that i didnt have time to focus on myself for a change. it was a little lonely in the beginning, because i wasnt used to being alone for so long. but it's been almost 2 years now since my last relationship, and i admit i have been tempted to agree to a relationship in between (the guy is a pilot with very conservative views, which i like), but, since i have a different perspective now, i have been able to spot some things in him that i know would be something that i will not be able to accept as time went on. even as i have a few suitors, i am taking my time, and studying each one to see through them so i could find their real colors. in the meantime, i am genuinely happy. you are still young...dont rush. just try to be by yourself for some time... maybe just a few months...just enough for you to get your bearings back. it'll be good for you. trust me.

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  • by BMEND on March 12th, 2008

    BMEND

    Don't think of it as a problem with you, because it's a problem with them.

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  • by shammers still slogging along on March 7th, 2008

    shammers still slogging along

    You have to ask yourself why you keep picking the same losers? I believe we pick people who treat us the way we expect. That's why I'm by myself, lol!!

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