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I think you're making this too complicated. If you're sexually attracted to both men and women, you're bisexual. You may lean towards one gender over the other, but if you would conceivably sleep with both, that pretty much sums it up.
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dont feel like you have to pick a label for yourself. maybe you are a girl who likes girls with an occasional touch of boy...
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My thoughts are just find someone whom you feel connected to physically, mentally, and spiritually(not in the god/religion sense)
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your bi ..its that simple!, look every bisexual on earth ALWAYS prefers one sex over the other ... all it means is one is for the emotional and sexual side of you and the other is just the sexual side ... stop over analyzing this and just enjoy your sexual freedom
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You are just being you, that is only human. No labels rule!
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we might have to make a whole new catagory for you ! But let's not - i hate labeling ppl.
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Labels are for cans. ;) I usually tell people I'm queer, and that if they really feel the need to have that defined they can buy me dinner while I explain.
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why struggle? why feel this need to choose one over the other when you like both? ur bisexual, its cool. best of both worlds.
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Bisexuality does not have to mean 50% attraction for girls, 50% for boys. And it can change with the years.
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Society loves to label people, ignore this be you.
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#1...STOP struggling...just accept who/what you are.. I think you are probably a lesbian --you yourself said "I'm ALWAYS attracted to girls more than boys" I'm just not sure what your question is: Are you asking for help not to be a lesbian? That simply will not happen..but I assure you that you can live a good fulfilling life as a gay person. You do, however, have to stop struggling with yourself and just enjoy your life....You only go around once...go around the way you feel best about..you are responsible for the enjoyment of your life:)
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Why must you struggle? Why must you "choose?" Accept who you are...you're attracted to both genders....you're bisexual.
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As others have said, who cares about the label. You may find that you are attracted to one sex more than the other... so what. I am too (actually I am fully one way ha), but I will never label myself as I believe that is what sets everyone apart when people should just be equals. I fall for a person, and that's that.
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'Penal Colony' great answer...
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Just don't label yourself?
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you don't have to pick!!! just because the world wants to label you doesn't mean you have to conform. you are what you are. love who you love. if you need a word to describe you, say queer. you'll either figure it out eventually, or you'll always be a little of each. so what?
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Why label yourself? Just be you and fall in love with the person not the gender. Just as you would want someone else to.
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we're ugly smelly masculine and rarely posess astheticly pleasing attributes, I'd be lesbian too.
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You said that you are struggling between bisexual and lesbian,you also said that you can't pick one gender other the other you are picking one gender other the other because you also said that you was always attracted to girls more then boys,and since you are attracted to girls more then boys you can't be a bisexual woman,because you said that you are attracted to girls more then boys and since you are attracted to girls more then boys, you would be a woman who is a lesbian you would not be a woman who is bisexual because bisexual women are attracted to both men and women.
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I am the exact same. And I get confused too. Like people already said though, why should be have to label ourselves either bisexual or lesbian? Settle with what you are and do what makes YOU happy. That means that if you meet a woman who you fall absolutely head over heels for, go for it! And if you find a guy who you are first dont find that attractive but that you end up falling deep and hard for: go for it! The best about being bisexual is that we dont HAVE to pick either men or women, we can pick the ones we like the best for their personality. And no matter who you are attracted to, the one you end up falling in love with is of course the one you should be with in the end ;)
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