by Anonymous on March 3rd, 2008

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My man is not talking to me, we used to talk about everything and now there seems to be gaps in our relationship, i feel like im pressuring him and failing him all at once! how do i get him to tell me what's going on without pushing him away further!

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  • by neenie2 on March 5th, 2008

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    This is a hard one. Sometimes people fall into a rut. SSDD syndrome (same stuff, different day). Nothing new or exciting happens, and you don't really feel about complaining about work for the millionth time. So you don't talk much because you feel you don't have anything of value to say.
    Or it could just be because he's a guy. Women typically talk a lot more than guys.
    Why would you think you're failing him? Do you refuse to listen when he wants to talk? That would be failing him.
    Bottom line, he'll talk when he wants to. You can't make him. Just be there for him when he's got something to say.

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