G'day Chop Chop, Thanks for your question. My short suggestion is that you don't if she has made it clear that she is not interested. You would be better off trying something that you both might enjoy. Regards

I've been married for nearly seven years to a woman I've been with for nearly twice as long. It hasn't happened. If she doesn't want to, you can't change her mind. Cope.

You can't really convince her to do something she doesn't want to do. However, you may be able to very gradually work your way up to it (with her consent, of course). Start from just touching her in that area, gauge her reactions. She may end up being curious to go further with it. However, if she's not or if she tells you to stop, I'd advise you to respect her wishes and just deal with it.

Hey you CAN do it, do not lose hope. After 14 years of marriage (and no chance of anal sex ), I just gave my wife a long back massage, while sliding up and down my penis along her crack (good 40-45 minutes of this)until it "popped in", there was no warning and she did not complain. She actually found the experience "interesting", and after that day everything else was straight forward, we do it frequently in different positions and different places. She especially loves when I whisper to her ears some erotic story about anal sex (a doctor giving her a special treatment, or a young woman keeping her virginity intact but taking it from behind, use your imagination). Today it is very pleasurable for her, and she sometimes asks for it. In summary, my wife did not want to know about anal sex, even thought I tried all the educational crap and hints you find in the Internet. So, just go for it, you should create a romantic environment (massage), with lubrication in the right place and "easy access (position herself to achieve your )", it worked for me. It took me 14 years but now I am having the best sex-life ever. We been having regular anal sex for the past six years now. Good luck!

Why? What is lacking? The fit? Get an implant and you will both be satisfied. Pure and simple, after the first kid, I don't care how much you have to brag about, it simply won't match that.

You said she doesn't really want to do it so that tells me she isn't totally against it. Keep at it but don't be to pushy. My wife wants it most when she is at her braking point and I won't give it to her than she begs for anal.