by 
Joanne-s
ANSWERS: 16
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Yes. It is very possible. I have a friend who met his girl when she was just past 16. she was already married with a baby daughter a few months old. He too was married. Both families were friends for many many years. Then both families experienced divorce. Involving by then a total of seven children. One of her children, the last, was the result of a drunken night with someone else. The two in question eventually in their 40's, had a much delayed affair, he asking for marriage, but she for some unknown reason, getting in a huff at a family [ hers] party, and giving back the engagement ring. He, after some time, met and married a wonderful woman that has lasted for over ten years. But he still thinks of "her" every day, but does nothing to contact her or cause his own marriage any problems. He is now, to put it bluntly, elderley. But each day he thinks fondly of her. Is this love????
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Move. space and a new atmosphere will clear your mind. destroy anything that reminds you of this person. time heals all wounds. time and distance will work. Some things in life, you can have. some things in life, you cannot have, no matter how hard the yearning and temptation. Another person may not be able to replace this person, but you at least have to give it a try. get interested in something that is very time consuming. an idle mind, can be a dangerous mind. good luck
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look for someone you can be with..... get over it...
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Move to somewhere you won't remember your sad memories. Settle in and take a deep plunge into a huge pool of new and happy memories. Find someone you think is your prince charming and rest comfortably with him.
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You can't forget. What you have to do is learn to control your thoughts so that you are still able to live normally. Realize that that person will always be special to you, if that is indeed the case, and don't try to "replace" him. You can decide how special you want that person to be to you and no one can take that away. Not another girl. No one. Also, this world is strange...you never know what will happen. Good things that will make the pain less severe.
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In old black and white films they used to join the french foreign legion. I remember Laurel and Hardy doing a good film with that for the premise.
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Find someone else. But take your time at it. Don't get carried away.
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ive been with the man that i adored 2 years and am afraid i still cant be with him ..for so many reasons..till to this day i love him with all my heart but see he told me hes leaving and am sad and happy at the same time..hes leaving for good and am glad because then it will take my pain away cuz i wont see him much and ill try to forget bout him..but then again hes always gona be that special one so what am saying here is that you can never control your feelings and thoughts but try to find new people that u can chill and have fun with. maybe sumday you;ll find sumone you love and can be with at and hopefully evrything gets well
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It's not going to be easy but my first question to you is why can't you be with him?. If it's because he is married or involved with someone else or because one of you is a minor and the other an adult then you are wise in trying to forget him. Otherwise I really don't understand why you can't be with this guy.
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Drop all communication, and if possible put as much geographical distance between you as possible. tough love, but it works. you will find new friends.
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Keep reminding yourself why you *CAN'T* be together...
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well meet new people ... control your mind and try not to remember him... and look for someone you can be with ...
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Only time will heal a broken heart.
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Just live your life knowing that what is meant to be will happen. And if the person you love is the one than it will happen. Until it does though you should be happy and know it could be worse. You only have one life, dont waste it worrying or being depressed.
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Hang out with your friends, go out to eat, take a class, join a gym, reconnect with yourself. I'm sure you'll find a way, we're extremely resilient and heart break doesn't last long.
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find someone better!!!
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