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by Ms sexpot Love Games on March 1st, 2008

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Women would you continue to date someone who was terrible in bed or would you let him go ? I really think that sex is a very important part of the relationship most people would not agree

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  • by Positively Negative on March 1st, 2008

    Positively Negative

    I think that sex is important in a relationship, and for many people it can make or break it. The test is whether or not you try new things and try to remedy the situation before just calling it quits. You know the saying practice makes perfect. He needs to fully understand what feels good to you and what doesn't. if he refuses to listen to you, then that is a different issue. So my short answer is, I would try to make the situation better, but if I felt my needs still weren't being met after talking about techniques and talking about sex, I would probably have to call it quits. The reason being is that he would not be listening to me, and if he can't listen to me about something like this, what will he listen to me about?

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  • by Little Miss Sunshine on December 17th, 2008

    Little Miss Sunshine

    I think it really depends on how much emphasis you put on sex and what it means in your relationship.

    I am a very sexual person and like good sex - not mind blowing sex but good sex! You can teach someone to a degree how to make it better but they have to be willing lovers. For me though if the sex isn't working the relationship won't work.

    I tend to become intimate with someone very early on - not necessarily have sex with them but weigh them up. If they seem to be on my wave length then the relationship goes further, taking this into consideration I have only actually had one bad lover whereas I could have had many more.

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  • by Anonymous on March 1st, 2008

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    While sex is important, it is but one aspect of a relationship. I've known people who have had nothing but rotten sex, yet they're still together because they really do love each other.

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  • by boredgal88 on July 22nd, 2009

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    I am not sure on this one because if I really love the person and that person really loves me, I think we can somehow get the sex to be better. If they are just in it to please themself and that is it they dont really care about me, I would more than likely leave. I wouldnt just up and leave if the first couple of times were bad because some people take a few times in order to get comfortable or to get into a groove that works for both partners.

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  • by Hainclopse on February 1st, 2009

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    A person's personality is almost directly related to how they are in bed. No one is "terrible" in bed just because they don't know how to please you anyway. All you have to do is be open and say, "Dude, that may have worked for you before but it doesn't work now. It's not your fault either." Though awkward at first, those can turn out to be some incredibly sexy conversations. They definitely pay off in the end.

    I guess what I'm saying is, I wouldn't be sleeping with someone unless I thought they were the most awesome person on the planet, and if they are said awesome person, they would certainly be willing to alter their techniques, as would I and any other rational being.

    If he was not a great person, I would automatically assume he was terrible in bed and dump him before waiting around to find out.

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  • by Superquack on March 2nd, 2008

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    As a male, if you deeply love someone, sex doesn't matter. My mind has floated many bad directions many times, but I have always came back.

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  • by Anonymous on December 17th, 2008

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    Sex is just too important an such an essential part of the relationship that if it were truly bad with my partner I'd have to leave him. The key is to find out about this well before you fall in love with him. I've met some very handsome, successful men who just couldn't satisfy me. One just could not hold it long enough, even with encouragement and practice--he would slide inside of me and pop immediately. Another just would not pay enough attention to my breasts during sex he became so preoccupied with my pussy. Another just wouldn't get and stay hard enough. Another produced such a very low volume of cum and couldn't spurt it long enough. Finally, two just couldn't break the masturbation habit. Here I was, a gorgeous, willing Asian woman available to them--but what did they do? Spent hours every night when they did not see me, watching and masturbating to dozens of Asian porn sites online! They just liked the feeling of their hands better than they liked the feeling of me!

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  • by AnonymousGirl on May 29th, 2010

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    If I was already dating him, I wouldn't dump him just because I found him "terrible" in bed. Actually, I'm inclined to find ways to enjoy my time in bed with him, even if that means letting him know what I'm comfortable with and what I'm not comfortable with. I don't think I've ever been in bed with someone who was "terrible" in bed. Does that mean I was?

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