If you could would you run a computer check on your prospective bride or husband? -- Why?
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for virus's? hmm, interesting :P
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no
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If you are planning to marry someone you should already know pretty much everything you need to about them so why bother. I wouldnt do it.
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My best friend should have. He was with his ex-wife for about four years before he married her. A computer check would have revealed that she had been involved in many law suits for frivolous reasons, that her driving record left much to be desired, and that she had been arrested for assault once. I met her during the first four years, before they were married, and you would never have thought anything bad of her. She seemed to be a quiet, loving, compassionate person. But once they were married, she became a horror. She demanded a divorce because he wasn;t making a enough money...Although they are divorced now, there is a child, the ex wife uses that child against my friend.
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I am a widow and have been seeing my Pastor for some time. In fact, too long. Perhaps I should have a computer check on him. My dear husband and I knew this Pastor and we both thought very highly of him. But he's been seeing me for almost two years and I think it's too long. People may be thinking the wrong thing. Perhaps I should have a computer check on him. in any event: Read your Bible!
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No, for the same reason I wouldn't hire a private investigator or agree to a prenuptial. If the two of us are truly right for each other and prepared to spend the rest of our lives together, we should know and trust each other well enough not to be snooping around behind each other's back.
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check for what? legal issues? nah ive done sill law breaking things and if he did 2 then he would have said by now anyway if i found out would my feelings change? nope
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Yes, I have! I had 3 kids living in my home, and before I allowed my SO to stay over, I ran a check on him! Lucky for him, it came back clean!:-)
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No. Trust is the most important component of a lasting relationship. If you cannot trust your significant other, you have no business to take that major step of getting engaged/married: for your sake, for theirs, and for the sake of your potential children, who don't deserve to grow up in a broken home. You establish trust in many ways, and while the security of knowing your partner has no rap sheet may feel like it builds trust, the sheer act of desiring to check is a declaration of not having sufficient trust in your partner.
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not on your bloody well life...what a bunch of bullshit...WTF is the world coming to ...I would tear anyone a new arsehole if I found out they did this to me ...male of female!!! and I wouldn't even dream of doing it even if I could ...computer only give you the facts ...not the reasons behind them ...example: you look up and find out this person your interested in has an assult charge against them thats shocking!...but it won't tell you that it was because this person punched the shit out of someone because they exposed them selves to there kid...would it ...no!!, all you would see is the assult charge...be very very careful about what you do with the information you find when you only have half the story!
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