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  • No, but sometimes, the best thing to say in these situations is nothing at all, for the look and the walk away should say everything. You should dump both of them for they aren't really your friends. I have noticed that those who sleep with others are often cheated on because someone gets bored and since the relationship is based on sex, they have no problem doing it with someone else who is new and exciting. If the relationship is based on emotional, intellectual and spiritual connections, then the physical will be light contact, for it is to comfort, and not for friction and white hot passion as is often depicted on tv and movies and dare I say, trailer parks.
  • : No, BUT I WAS ALMOST "caught red-handed" in a mountain cabin with someone's wife! We met at the lodge. We had a great time! The Q never came up about our "availability". At the time I was divorced. I had a clear conscious! She asked me to come back to HER cabin. We were having a terrific time. All of a sudden she hears an approaching car on the gravel. "Quick - get the hell out of here! It's my husband!" "Husband? You didn't say you were married!" I gathered my clothes and escaped out the rear cabin window. We missed getting caught by about a minute - I THINK. The next day I left the mountains for home. I never was able to get any kind of explanation. NOW it's one of the Qs I make it a point to ask. If the lady is married, she is definitely "out of bounds"! Thanks for asking your Q! I enjoyed answering it! VTY, Ron Berue Yes, that is my real last name! Sources: A not-too-pleasant run down "Memory Lane". "THE University of Hard Knocks" Also known as ("a/k/a") "life's valuable lessons".

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