ANSWERS: 8
  • Most guys won't take the time to tell you are beautiful, unless you really are. You are lucky to have such a caring guy. Especially since most of us, even if we do have a girl that is beautiful to us, forget to truly appreciate you and forget to tell you that. If he tells you you are beautiful, you must be in his eyes.
  • I agree with Mister Robin. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, which means you're not qualified since mirrors don't count. I know that sounds stupid, but he knows what he's talking about. He wouldn't say if it he didn't believe it, and that's all that matters.
  • Trust him, you are a beautiful person, because we all are. The monster you see is not real and comes from the media.
  • I know very few guys that will tell a girl she's beautiful if she's not. They will say you're pretty, or nice-looking, but not beautiful. If he says that, he believes you to be so, so why don't you believe him? Be careful with your own psyche. Some of the anorexic and bolimic women on talk shows start off thinking they look fat and ugly when they are anything but. If this is the case with you, PLEASE get some help before you sink so deeply into an eating disorder you can't get out. If not, I apologize for that thought, but I still suggest you see a couselor for your self-esteem issues. Good luck! ;-)
  • I have a very similar issue. My boyfriend is such a sweetheart; he tells me everyday that I am gorgeous and beautiful. It's hard because I don't think I'm pretty at all. I've had friends that were anorexic, so I know it's a bad road to go down, but I still have a huge self-image issue.
  • Leave well-enough alone! He loves you. What more do you want? This kind of negative thinking will only lead to trouble. He tells you everyday that you look beautiful, and he loves you, That's as good as it gets. :)  
  • I am in the same boat, but sometimes you just have to let go. At the end of the day, you are attracted to your boyfriend and maybe other people think he looks like a monster. Not everyone fancies the same kind of people. Relax and let go of yourself.
  • You have to learn to trust him. By doing what you're doing you risk driving your relationship into the ground. Clearly he seems sincere. I think you need to learn to love yourself before you can move on and be happy. Listen to him and believe that what he says is exactly what he means.

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