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  • Move on. That sounds like a situation that'll just end up being drawn out, messy, and painful. You can do better.
  • If he dropped you that quick after 6 months for that reason I think you should just move on. I can understand that he would want to have a relationship with his son if it is his son, but that has nothing to do with him leaving you for her. That should show you his true colors and as hard as it may be you should move on and take it as a lesson learned and be grateful that you did not have a child with him before you found out how not commited to your relationship he really was.Best of luck :)
  • Move ON!!!!
  • If I understand you correctly from what you have described, you are dropped by this guy because his son and ex had come back into his life, then it is time to get on with your life. Complicated relationships such as this rarely have good endings. A guy will always tell you that he loves you for only as long as he wants to hold onto you.
  • move on.
  • Your level of self esteem is critical here. His actions are not the actions of a person who loves you. Now drop him. Buy yourself something new that makes you feel like a million; plan a vaction by yourself if need be so that you have something to look forward to. Something to look forward to is important so you have something to think about besides him. When you find yourself thinking about him, think about your vacation where you'll meet all kinds of new people. And value yourself enough to feel only a jerk would treat another person like this. He's only thinking about himself since he offered no explanation. You're the Queen! The audacity of him!
  • Sounds like drama to me. Avoid it. Messy situations never clean themselves up well.
  • Sounds like your only choices are be available as a friend or just move on entirely. Some folks don't want anything to do with an ex, others still have residual feelings and it sounds like he's the latter. This is understandable, however it is also understandable if you wouldn't want to be involved with this situation.
  • Walk away, you've only invested 6 months in this relationship. Sounds like he has bigger problems than anyone would want to deal with.
  • Dont walk away mad... just walk away. Your better off without someone who out of one side of his mouth says he loves you and the other side drops everything for an EX.

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