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I find myslef in that same boat from time to time with my friends. Just dont bring up what one of them said to the other, then never pans out well.
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Tell them both, either together or separately, that they need to get together and discuss plans for their future. Are they both sure they want to get married at the agreed date? Or has there been a date set? Tell them it's important toplan ahead about many things that may change once they are married. maybe if they are "gently Pushed" to make permenant plans, one or the other will say.."Maybe we should put off a wedding date until things are better financially" or maybe we should wait until we can afford a house, or until my parents can afford to come to town." It may be the very thing to bring the problem to a head and make them start discussing if they are both really ready to make this step.
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