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by Princesswise on March 8th, 2007
Yes - I love giving it to him with my strap-on and I have an orgasm every time!! The base hits my clit just right and I love the thrusting action. He seems to like it too. He or I stroke his member (which isn't always very hard)while I am stroking in and out and he cums every time.
As far as getting it - I like the answer that said they can love it as much as men do - but I would say guys like it better because they get additional benefit of prostate massage too!
As far as me liking to receive anal. The whole anal area is full of nerve endings and it can be very pleasurable. Lots of anal foreplay is nice and drives the desire for more. In some ways, similiar to vaginal, the feeling of fullness of having something inside me is very pleasant. Still, in order to climax, I need to be very into it and combine it with clitoral stimulation as well.
by bugmann on June 25th, 2006
According to my expert (my wife) she tells me the difference is similar to what a guy feels different when having straight sex and oral sex. I can appreciate this as there is a difference in climax on both of these.
It comes down to personal preferences, as well as skills. Some women run away when asked for butt sex and there are some who prefer it, if done correctly.
I will say that when woman first wants to have butt sex it is best to FULLY prime them by stimulating the nerve endings throughout their body. The ones that normally produce a sexual tyrannosaur out of them when the fingertips are as smooth as possible. Foreplay is a must and the better you are at it the more positive your results will be.
We save butt sex for special occasions or when I need to hear her SCREAM my favorite tune!! I just love that kind of encouragement from her!!! After that rumble she is completely exhausted more so than after any other type sex. So, in your case, I hope that she is the type who loves it that way as, if so, you are going to have one NICE treat in store!!!
So to answer the question what does she get? She gets satisfied in a way that cannot be accomplished with ANY other method. YES woman can love this very much!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
by ass-slut on January 17th, 2007
i am a woman and i love anal sex. in fact, many times it is my preferred method of sexual intercourse. it should only be done with a partner who you can trust. it should be taken very slowly. i would start with a finger and work up from there. Vibration helps, as it tends to relax the muscles. Lubrication is a definite must, especially for a beginner. When combined with clitoral stimulation, anal sex can be mindblowing.
by lady fuschia on June 26th, 2006
Well, various things really. And it does depend on the woman.
I'd say by far the most major attraction for most women is in the fact that it's something that is seen as dirty, forbidden and even "wrong"- and that can be a huge turn on in itself. The mind is an erogenous zone as well, and this is particularly true of women. There's also the sense of submission or masochism that comes with anal sex: being made to do something solely for a man's pleasure is immensly erotic for a great many women, the act itself will often happen during role play or bondage sessions, and serves to add to the sense of servitude. Of course, for women with masochistic tendencies, the pain itself can be a turn on.
Also, there is a knock on effect of the sensation of pressing against the vagina- this isn't something all women experience, but it can be quite intensly physically pleasurable for some.
by mseve68 on November 15th, 2007
Some women do and some women don't. I happen to be one that does.
by justme32 loves the weekends on November 30th, 2006
As a woman, I can say that I do enjoy anal sex. I have only had one partner with whom I have done this with and he took great care in preparing for it and even greater care in moving forward. It isnt something that should be rushed or taken lightly. Even though I do enjoy it very much with him doing it all of the time is not an option.
by Jennifer Jason on October 3rd, 2007
Answer number 1 was great. Yes it is considered taboo and that makes it fun in of itself.
For me it is also like a gift I'm giving my guy. It is my most private place. I don't let the world go looking and sticking things up my rear. So to let him slip up there is like a way of giving to him.
Plus the anus is full of nerves and the sensations can be amazing. I like to be on my hands and knees with a pillow. I like him to come at me from behind and after he is in I can rest down on the pillow and use a vibrator on my clitoris while he has fun.
I have had some amazing climaxes purely from anal sex.
by Anonymous on March 28th, 2007
There are plenty of sensitive nerve endings around the anus, and in fact there are supposed to be 3 types of orgasm a woman can have:
Vaginal (stimulation of g-spot)
Clitoral
Anal.
Both men and woman can come from having the entrance to the anus stretched and stimulated - men more so because of the extra bonus of a prostate. This is an anal orgasm. I think they're quite rare, but even without that orgasm, anal stimulation can make a person, man or woman, quite horny.
When a person comes normally, (vaginally/clitorally or penilely) the anus actually rhythmically contracts without any stimulation at all. The feeling is often more pleasurable when there is something holding the anus open and resisting that muscular contraction.
In women, there is only a thin sheath of muscle and membrane separating the anus and vagina. It is somewhat possible to stimulate the outer walls of the vagina with something in the anus (just as can be done with the prostate. And there's that bonus of feeling turned on by doing something taboo.
So yes, women can enjoy anal sex. In fact, men can too, both ways. It's a win win situation all round. Personally, I enjoy anal sex, probably more than vaginal sex, but I'm a freak of nature.
by elizabeth on March 29th, 2007
almost every woman you ask will flat out say they dont like it, and would never prefer it.... but quite a few just state that because they feel embarrassed.... the fact is that many of them like it.... its a huge turn on just like oral sex is for guys.... the thing is quite a few women like to feel helpless when having sex, and this is one way for the man to be in complete control... the more control the man has the bigger the turn-on for the woman.... so it really just depends on the woman....
by ladyness on May 13th, 2011
Trust me, it feels great for a girl.
Even when pleasuring myself I like to use a finger up the ass.
Ass play brings things to a whole new level. It's incredibly erotic.
by anonymous on September 9th, 2009
i do, i love being used rough. i love when he just shoves it in and fucks me as hard as he can. it is sooooooo painful but i love the pain. i guess its the same kind of pleasure-pain some people get from tattos.
by crazy_love on November 15th, 2007
Nooooo thank you. . . .that, for me, is a one way street my friend...
by Mentalmum is back on November 15th, 2007
aaarrrrgggghhh....eeewwww.. dont even go there!!!
NO,NO, NO, NO, AND NO...
by turbowray on November 25th, 2006
If it is done correctly, and not quickly, it can be pleasant, but if rushed it can be very painful. I think it also depends on wether the man is doing other things to you, while doing this.
by Nobody on October 17th, 2006
They can love it at much a men do.
Though it takes a certain kind of mood, I guess.
by jeannie on January 12th, 2009
Not only do I like it. I crave it. Any woman that says it hurts needs to learn to relax. Lots of lube. Then one and two fingers. Then a small butt plug while I'm being pussy fucked... God that feels so amazing. Then I get on all fours and lay my shoulders down so my hands can reach my clit.We add more lube just to be certain and we put a big dildo in my pussy. He likes looking at my ass in this position and sometimes he just enjoys moving the dildo in and out of my pussy while he watches my backdoor wink since it is all relaxed from the butt plug. Then he slowly enters my ass and OMG it is so intimate, sweet and full.He gives me a moment or two to fully accept him and then he slowly begins to glide in and out of my special place. I am so relaxed that all I feel is amazing pleasure and I allow him to set his own pace from this point forward. He loves that I trust him. He loves that I accept him. He knows he is welcome and no place is off limits.
by Jane on June 4th, 2008
I really like it....a lot. It's hot. and feel good.
by b easy on May 27th, 2008
i tried it, but it last 3 seconds, hurt sooo bad.
soo, we stick w/finger play :) lol
by Cleopatra-Queen of Denial on April 10th, 2008
Some do and some don't. i personally can do without it but my boyfriend enjoys it once in a while so i do it for him.
by RudyBox on March 26th, 2007
We have nerve ends in the rectum, and on me they seem even more sensible than the ones in my vagina! This makes anal sex very nice to me...
by DeviantDeDe on August 5th, 2010
i love anal sex! if it is done at my pace and on my terms it is very enjoyable! i like to be on my knees, face down when he enters my ass that way i can finger my vagina while he is pounding me i have very intense orgasms when he fucks my ass.
by elusiveadventure on January 27th, 2008
I'm a woman and I LOVE it! I am happy if it happens every time we have sex. It does cause a very good physical sensation, at least for me.
by Jennifer Jason on November 19th, 2007
Absolutely! But like posted above... it has to be done right and the prep is more than 1/2 the fun. If the guy rushes the prep then its painful and not enjoyable.
If the prep is done right and with love and care then I'm usually assured a major orgasm which I typically find to be better than vaginal orgasms.
Yes the mind is a big part of it. For me its a combination of embarrassment, yes I do love it but it is a little embarrassing to have a guy playing and going up there. And the fact that it is supposed to be for me to push waste out of and we have made it into a fun place... All these work to make it extremely pleasurable.
Don't knock it until you've tried it!
by Jade on November 15th, 2007
I imagine there are..though I can't imagine why. That is an exit not an entrance.
by wookieblu on November 15th, 2007
no hate it but i know guys like it because of vthe tightness
by Lambchop Good Wool Ambassador on November 15th, 2007
None that I know of. I have a you first philosophy about it. Turns out not very many men like it either. :)
by Azraff on November 15th, 2007
No!!!!!!!!!!!!! Sorry, but I question, are the men
that like it gay and don't want to admit it? or sadistic at the least?
by ....Michelle.... on November 15th, 2007
I only somewhat like it cuz he likes it haha
by JustCurious on November 15th, 2007
NO! stay outta there.
by APACHEmeansENEMY on November 15th, 2007
nope.
by brian ass on November 15th, 2007
it's a shame that in this day an age we still have hangups and these things called "taboos" about the sex. what ever blows you hair back. play safe.
by alieninastrangeland on April 14th, 2007
Anal sex is MAGNIFICENT if you can trust your partner to know what they are doing in preparation, continue to listen during (in case is becomes uncomfortable) and are gentle and caring afterwards. Same consideration as vaginal sex really.
I guess you have to be sure the guy won't get so lost in his own sensations that he can't hear you if you say, stop thats far enough!
by luvmywifesass on April 12th, 2007
My wife loves anal sex! She says she has much more intense orgasms. So much so, that anal sex is all we've had for the past eight months.
by kelford10 on March 26th, 2007
what a woman gets out of it is .......Hemorrhoids.
by zee-ster on March 26th, 2007
some of them do, but personally, i don't. i've asked women about it who do enjoy this though.
for the ones who to enjoy it, i think it's simply in part because it is semi-taboo, and also because of the nerve endings in there.
by Anonymous on November 25th, 2006
The only woman I was with who really liked it was sexually abused as a child. She never really liked giving me oral sex unless she could lick my anal area. She seemed to me to have difficulty connecting with vaginal sex and I think preferred anal penetration. In many aspects of our relationship I found a sado-masochistic tendency emotionally and I eventually had to get out. It just didn't seem healthy and she was hard to connect with on a consistent basis. I would not explore that level of anal interest again in a relationship, except possibly (longshot) if it was with a healthy woman that I was going to be my life partner.
by A-Kinky-Gal on November 16th, 2011
Personally, it's my fetish.. well besides swallowing cum. Anyway, It feels great to have my asshole slowly stretched. And for some reason I have always been really turned on by the idea of Anal. Ever since I was a young teen, assholes have always turned me on.
by amin1965 on June 29th, 2010
amin baloch...sex is love and love means respect for each other,beautiful girls are everything for a man's life girls are made to be loved and respect i will do that what my girl friend likes in sex,keep in mind sex is not only penetration its far more something else.
by Great Pretender on April 26th, 2009
i like anal sex. it feels so good... hurts a tiny bit for me but i love it. girls either love it or hate it... there isnt much in between
by wthing8 on September 19th, 2008
Money
by Wishlist on May 26th, 2008
I do! Had it just last night/this morning. We like changing it up. He especially enjoys it, and thats what its all about!
by 9nascar on April 12th, 2008
yuck!yuck!yuck! Exit Only
by mr300zx on January 16th, 2008
Yes they do, The ones that dont have never had the magic stick. All you have to do is
1. Lots of lube, we use KY
2. Get her really horny
3. Just a little bit at a time, let her do the motion so you dont shove it in to quick.
4. Giver her the old "reach around" and put those fingers, start out with one and then move to two, in her vagina, they go crazy for that.
5. Enjoy!!
A tip for some that dont know, if she is on all fours(doggystyle) and you cum inside her, she will feel like she needs to poop, after you get it going, pull her on top and have her ride it or do it from the side. Feels just as good if not better, and you can cumm 2 or 3 times before its an issue.
by gone on November 15th, 2007
eewww god no if you want anal i think you might try looking for a man
by allalonetonight on November 15th, 2007
Ive tried it a couple of times, but I didn't get anything out of it. He liked it, of course!!
by bluegirl1417 on November 15th, 2007
Sick no! I have a different body part for a reason no need to go for the shared ones lol
by PT girl 08 on November 15th, 2007
NO, NO, NO, at least not with a man big enough to feel it with.
by Anonymous on August 21st, 2007
I just tried it the other day, after saying i wasn't sure whether i would ever try it. i was horny, so i thought what the hell. the only lube was from my vagina, and it a hurt a bit at first, but i was suprised that it was ok. i actually quite enjoyed it, though my ass was a bit sore later on. i thought it would be harder to get it in. and he loved it.
by Animal Mother on May 13th, 2011
Ohh I assure you it is sexually satisfiying, it's taboo, it's dirty, it's different, and it feels good for both involved. Of course it's not everyone's cup of tea, but for those of us who know, it can be amazing.
If you don't know there is only one way to find out!
by Cleopatra-Queen of Denial on April 12th, 2008
I have already answered this question. lol
GIRLS: I want to try anal. Any advice?
by lostneverfound on January 2nd, 2012
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Ladies: How does it feel when you have anal sex in comparison with vaginal sex? By that, what literally "feels" different?
by SkulblakaShurtugal on January 20th, 2012
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Guys: Have you ever (or wanted) to try something such as pegging?
by theLastCynthia on January 20th, 2012
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I have had anal sex in the past. I'm nervous about telling other people because of what their opinions may be. What are your views on this?
by help full hints on January 4th, 2012
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For ladies who love anal sex: Is there any side effect of having anal sex for frequently? like bleeding or the hole won't recover..
by alexandra85 on January 11th, 2012
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I wonder why people gave me negative points for this?? People love sex all sorts of ways - And he is straight but still likes receiving anal more than I do. What's wrong with that!!??
by Princesswise on April 3rd, 2007
I bet they don't think you are being serious with your answer .
You gotta admit the first line sounds a little ....
I gave ya a positive
by Arris on May 29th, 2008
I think it is just because the question is posed more towards a guy going up a girl anally rather than you doing him anally. Sorry the points where negative though...
by Jennifer Jason on July 8th, 2009
Well I agree with princess. I have a very good time during anal sex with my husband, and so do my friends! And yes, it is very easy to make my hubby cum, I just bend him over my foot stool and use a bat to open him nice and wide. I works out great, he gets to cum alot and me and my friends get hilarious entertainment as we watch him squirm like a girl for us LOL. Plus it is very easy as we can all stay dressed and sit back and put our feet up while we do it becuz it it like having a toy with a long handle on it :)
Kelli
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by Kelli_Kanyon on November 1st, 2009
What is your website about Killi_Kanyon?
by FresnoKinkster on May 24th, 2011