According to my expert (my wife) she tells me the difference is similar to what a guy feels different when having straight sex and oral sex. I can appreciate this as there is a difference in climax on both of these. It comes down to personal preferences, as well as skills. Some women run away when asked for butt sex and there are some who prefer it, if done correctly. I will say that when woman first wants to have butt sex it is best to FULLY prime them by stimulating the nerve endings throughout their body. The ones that normally produce a sexual tyrannosaur out of them when the fingertips are as smooth as possible. Foreplay is a must and the better you are at it the more positive your results will be. We save butt sex for special occasions or when I need to hear her SCREAM my favorite tune!! I just love that kind of encouragement from her!!! After that rumble she is completely exhausted more so than after any other type sex. So, in your case, I hope that she is the type who loves it that way as, if so, you are going to have one NICE treat in store!!! So to answer the question what does she get? She gets satisfied in a way that cannot be accomplished with ANY other method. YES woman can love this very much!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Well, various things really. And it does depend on the woman. I'd say by far the most major attraction for most women is in the fact that it's something that is seen as dirty, forbidden and even "wrong"- and that can be a huge turn on in itself. The mind is an erogenous zone as well, and this is particularly true of women. There's also the sense of submission or masochism that comes with anal sex: being made to do something solely for a man's pleasure is immensly erotic for a great many women, the act itself will often happen during role play or bondage sessions, and serves to add to the sense of servitude. Of course, for women with masochistic tendencies, the pain itself can be a turn on. Also, there is a knock on effect of the sensation of pressing against the vagina- this isn't something all women experience, but it can be quite intensly physically pleasurable for some.

They can love it at much a men do. Though it takes a certain kind of mood, I guess.

The only woman I was with who really liked it was sexually abused as a child. She never really liked giving me oral sex unless she could lick my anal area. She seemed to me to have difficulty connecting with vaginal sex and I think preferred anal penetration. In many aspects of our relationship I found a sado-masochistic tendency emotionally and I eventually had to get out. It just didn't seem healthy and she was hard to connect with on a consistent basis. I would not explore that level of anal interest again in a relationship, except possibly (longshot) if it was with a healthy woman that I was going to be my life partner.

If it is done correctly, and not quickly, it can be pleasant, but if rushed it can be very painful. I think it also depends on wether the man is doing other things to you, while doing this.

As a woman, I can say that I do enjoy anal sex. I have only had one partner with whom I have done this with and he took great care in preparing for it and even greater care in moving forward. It isnt something that should be rushed or taken lightly. Even though I do enjoy it very much with him doing it all of the time is not an option.

i am a woman and i love anal sex. in fact, many times it is my preferred method of sexual intercourse. it should only be done with a partner who you can trust. it should be taken very slowly. i would start with a finger and work up from there. Vibration helps, as it tends to relax the muscles. Lubrication is a definite must, especially for a beginner. When combined with clitoral stimulation, anal sex can be mindblowing.

Yes - I love giving it to him with my strap-on and I have an orgasm every time!! The base hits my clit just right and I love the thrusting action. He seems to like it too. He or I stroke his member (which isn't always very hard)while I am stroking in and out and he cums every time. As far as getting it - I like the answer that said they can love it as much as men do - but I would say guys like it better because they get additional benefit of prostate massage too! As far as me liking to receive anal. The whole anal area is full of nerve endings and it can be very pleasurable. Lots of anal foreplay is nice and drives the desire for more. In some ways, similiar to vaginal, the feeling of fullness of having something inside me is very pleasant. Still, in order to climax, I need to be very into it and combine it with clitoral stimulation as well.

We have nerve ends in the rectum, and on me they seem even more sensible than the ones in my vagina! This makes anal sex very nice to me...

some of them do, but personally, i don't. i've asked women about it who do enjoy this though. for the ones who to enjoy it, i think it's simply in part because it is semi-taboo, and also because of the nerve endings in there.

what a woman gets out of it is .......Hemorrhoids.

There are plenty of sensitive nerve endings around the anus, and in fact there are supposed to be 3 types of orgasm a woman can have: Vaginal (stimulation of g-spot) Clitoral Anal. Both men and woman can come from having the entrance to the anus stretched and stimulated - men more so because of the extra bonus of a prostate. This is an anal orgasm. I think they're quite rare, but even without that orgasm, anal stimulation can make a person, man or woman, quite horny. When a person comes normally, (vaginally/clitorally or penilely) the anus actually rhythmically contracts without any stimulation at all. The feeling is often more pleasurable when there is something holding the anus open and resisting that muscular contraction. In women, there is only a thin sheath of muscle and membrane separating the anus and vagina. It is somewhat possible to stimulate the outer walls of the vagina with something in the anus (just as can be done with the prostate. And there's that bonus of feeling turned on by doing something taboo. So yes, women can enjoy anal sex. In fact, men can too, both ways. It's a win win situation all round. Personally, I enjoy anal sex, probably more than vaginal sex, but I'm a freak of nature.

almost every woman you ask will flat out say they dont like it, and would never prefer it.... but quite a few just state that because they feel embarrassed.... the fact is that many of them like it.... its a huge turn on just like oral sex is for guys.... the thing is quite a few women like to feel helpless when having sex, and this is one way for the man to be in complete control... the more control the man has the bigger the turn-on for the woman.... so it really just depends on the woman....

My wife loves anal sex! She says she has much more intense orgasms. So much so, that anal sex is all we've had for the past eight months.

Anal sex is MAGNIFICENT if you can trust your partner to know what they are doing in preparation, continue to listen during (in case is becomes uncomfortable) and are gentle and caring afterwards. Same consideration as vaginal sex really. I guess you have to be sure the guy won't get so lost in his own sensations that he can't hear you if you say, stop thats far enough!

I just tried it the other day, after saying i wasn't sure whether i would ever try it. i was horny, so i thought what the hell. the only lube was from my vagina, and it a hurt a bit at first, but i was suprised that it was ok. i actually quite enjoyed it, though my ass was a bit sore later on. i thought it would be harder to get it in. and he loved it.

Can we practice anal sex without being victim to Hemorrhoids?

Answer number 1 was great. Yes it is considered taboo and that makes it fun in of itself. For me it is also like a gift I'm giving my guy. It is my most private place. I don't let the world go looking and sticking things up my rear. So to let him slip up there is like a way of giving to him. Plus the anus is full of nerves and the sensations can be amazing. I like to be on my hands and knees with a pillow. I like him to come at me from behind and after he is in I can rest down on the pillow and use a vibrator on my clitoris while he has fun. I have had some amazing climaxes purely from anal sex.

it's a shame that in this day an age we still have hangups and these things called "taboos" about the sex. what ever blows you hair back. play safe.

aaarrrrgggghhh....eeewwww.. dont even go there!!! NO,NO, NO, NO, AND NO...

nope.

NO! stay outta there.

Some women do and some women don't. I happen to be one that does.

I only somewhat like it cuz he likes it haha

NO, NO, NO, at least not with a man big enough to feel it with.

Nooooo thank you. . . .that, for me, is a one way street my friend...

Sick no! I have a different body part for a reason no need to go for the shared ones lol

Ive tried it a couple of times, but I didn't get anything out of it. He liked it, of course!!

No!!!!!!!!!!!!! Sorry, but I question, are the men that like it gay and don't want to admit it? or sadistic at the least?

eewww god no if you want anal i think you might try looking for a man

None that I know of. I have a you first philosophy about it. Turns out not very many men like it either. :)

no hate it but i know guys like it because of vthe tightness

I imagine there are..though I can't imagine why. That is an exit not an entrance.

It really depends but if one particular one doesn't, don't push it.

Absolutely! But like posted above... it has to be done right and the prep is more than 1/2 the fun. If the guy rushes the prep then its painful and not enjoyable. If the prep is done right and with love and care then I'm usually assured a major orgasm which I typically find to be better than vaginal orgasms. Yes the mind is a big part of it. For me its a combination of embarrassment, yes I do love it but it is a little embarrassing to have a guy playing and going up there. And the fact that it is supposed to be for me to push waste out of and we have made it into a fun place... All these work to make it extremely pleasurable. Don't knock it until you've tried it!

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Are you, (apparent) guy, enjoying it?

Yes they do, The ones that dont have never had the magic stick. All you have to do is 1. Lots of lube, we use KY 2. Get her really horny 3. Just a little bit at a time, let her do the motion so you dont shove it in to quick. 4. Giver her the old "reach around" and put those fingers, start out with one and then move to two, in her vagina, they go crazy for that. 5. Enjoy!! A tip for some that dont know, if she is on all fours(doggystyle) and you cum inside her, she will feel like she needs to poop, after you get it going, pull her on top and have her ride it or do it from the side. Feels just as good if not better, and you can cumm 2 or 3 times before its an issue.

I'm a woman and I LOVE it! I am happy if it happens every time we have sex. It does cause a very good physical sensation, at least for me.

It has been said that young girls of school age are tring the ansl sex in place of the real thing to avoid the risk of a baby

Personally I dont like it at all! It hurts way to much!!!!!!!! But can anyone help or give advice?

Some do and some don't. i personally can do without it but my boyfriend enjoys it once in a while so i do it for him.

I do! it's different

I have already answered this question. lol

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well for me im not really sure but so far all the butt sex that i have had sucked pretty bad but then again ive never really done it long enough to know what it really feels like but i guess there are a lot of women out there that like it and some dont.

I do! Had it just last night/this morning. We like changing it up. He especially enjoys it, and thats what its all about!

i tried it, but it last 3 seconds, hurt sooo bad. soo, we stick w/finger play :) lol

is it not really sore? lol =

I really like it....a lot. It's hot. and feel good.

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Well, i've had anal sex before and its quite satisfieing. Sometimes its better then regular sex.

Yes...Anal sex, It's the new "Head" in my opinion. Socially it's what head was 20yrs ago in it's current youthful stage. (term "youthful" not meant to encourage child participation in sex} It has that "Do you do that" curiosity within the current hetero conversation circles. Many women shy away from openly admitting that this is an act that they enjoy or participate in, as if to get an initial feel for what we men might like, reminiscent of many womans shy conversation approach to oral sex many years ago. You can see that approach has changed immensely as female to male fellatio is common place sexual behavior. I would say anal sex is definitely riskay and adult porn films like with many sexual acts kinda irresponsibly glorify the act to the world when caution should be used with anal sex as with all casual sex. Anal sex, though enjoyed by many hetero today is an action. And for every action is a reaction. I refer to porn and if this has been anyones influence, do watch the outtakes which detail the anal bloopers which are not encouraging at all for either party. I think it's an act that should be reserved for the more settled trust worthy Male to Female relationships. After all it is a butt hole primarily used for shitting and if that fact is of any value and if you want shitting to remain your asses primary function, I would definitely suggest caution in partaking in the act of anal sex on a casual level.

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My women do... :-)

I think all woman really do enjoy all sex positions, but it depends on the mans experience and the relationship of whom you are making love to. If you have great communication during sex with your partner, then you will have an enjoying love session. Communication and care are the keys to good sex. And that is for any type of sexual encounter with your partner not just sex in general. :) -Jessica Edgell soon to be Zeidler.

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i asked doctor he said it harmful for women and destroy her anus muscle and observance make she pass on herself(excrement ) and she can't control herself like baby and always have bad body odeur(shitty smell)

Not only do I like it. I crave it. Any woman that says it hurts needs to learn to relax. Lots of lube. Then one and two fingers. Then a small butt plug while I'm being pussy fucked... God that feels so amazing. Then I get on all fours and lay my shoulders down so my hands can reach my clit.We add more lube just to be certain and we put a big dildo in my pussy. He likes looking at my ass in this position and sometimes he just enjoys moving the dildo in and out of my pussy while he watches my backdoor wink since it is all relaxed from the butt plug. Then he slowly enters my ass and OMG it is so intimate, sweet and full.He gives me a moment or two to fully accept him and then he slowly begins to glide in and out of my special place. I am so relaxed that all I feel is amazing pleasure and I allow him to set his own pace from this point forward. He loves that I trust him. He loves that I accept him. He knows he is welcome and no place is off limits.

Not really, it doesn't do anything! and I have tried. Feel a bit ripped off really. I have amazing vaginal orgasms very easily, but don't feel much up there. I think everyone is different. I notice most of the women here suggest stimulating your clit at the same time. Maybe this is the answer. I dunno, the idea of having to 'wank' myself in order to enjoy it!! Or am I expecting too much? the women on the porn movies don't seem to think so, ha!

nothing just consider a slut because she let u do it

i like anal sex. it feels so good... hurts a tiny bit for me but i love it. girls either love it or hate it... there isnt much in between

Me and my man love to have anal sex. We find it a nice change from vaginal sex. He finds it very pleasurable, as do i, especially with clitoral stimulation also, from a vibrator for example. it has improved our sex life, and brought back that feeling of naughtiness and the thrill of good sex!

yes i like it,,,and we do it quite often,,,not every day,,,but at least once a week,,,,it's just so different from vaginal sex,,,,not better or worse,,,but as nice,,,,

i do, i love being used rough. i love when he just shoves it in and fucks me as hard as he can. it is sooooooo painful but i love the pain. i guess its the same kind of pleasure-pain some people get from tattos.

Oh yes! I do! I can have bigger, better orgasms throught just anal sex than through anything else, which I didn't think could be possible after the ones I get from my hubbie sucking on my clit but anal orgasms are amazing! Even now just the thought of my hubbie thrusting his cock in my ass is making me hot and wet! I used to only have anal occasionally because it hurt at first but now that we know how it do it right then I am usually begging him to fuck my ass when we make love but he will tease me by playing with my ass and then not enter me no matter how much I beg and plead! but then suddenly when I think I'll never get his cock in my ass he will make his cock 'slip' out of my pussy and thrust it straight into my ass really deep and hard - oh wow the sudden thrust of his cock inside me is amazing and I will always orgasm straight away from that, then he will carrying inside my ass for at least a hour before he will come - by that time I've usually come half a dozen times! So what more could a girl want!

I am very interested in having anal sex with my husband. the problem is, is that he has a big dick. thick. I'm afraid that it will hurt too bad to enjoy but I want to do it.

YES I ENJOY IT MOST DO SOME DON'T IT DEPENDS ON HOW YOU DO IT