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Do women really like anal sex? I can see what a guy gets out of it, but what does a woman get out of it?

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by Princesswise on Mar 8, 2007 at 9:24 am Permalink

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Yes - I love giving it to him with my strap-on and I have an orgasm every time!! The base hits my clit just right and I love the thrusting action. He seems to like it too. He or I stroke his member (which isn't always very hard)while I am stroking in and out and he cums every time.

As far as getting it - I like the answer that said they can love it as much as men do - but I would say guys like it better because they get additional benefit of prostate massage too!

As far as me liking to receive anal. The whole anal area is full of nerve endings and it can be very pleasurable. Lots of anal foreplay is nice and drives the desire for more. In some ways, similiar to vaginal, the feeling of fullness of having something inside me is very pleasant. Still, in order to climax, I need to be very into it and combine it with clitoral stimulation as well.
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Avatar Arris May, 29 2008 at 10:43 PM
I bet they don't think you are being serious with your answer .
You gotta admit the first line sounds a little ....
I gave ya a positive
Avatar Jennifer Jason Jul, 08 2009 at 01:14 PM
I think it is just because the question is posed more towards a guy going up a girl anally rather than you doing him anally. Sorry the points where negative though...
Avatar Kelli_Kanyon Nov, 01 2009 at 03:15 PM
Well I agree with princess. I have a very good time during anal sex with my husband, and so do my friends! And yes, it is very easy to make my hubby cum, I just bend him over my foot stool and use a bat to open him nice and wide. I works out great, he gets to cum alot and me and my friends get hilarious entertainment as we watch him squirm like a girl for us LOL. Plus it is very easy as we can all stay dressed and sit back and put our feet up while we do it becuz it it like having a toy with a long handle on it :)
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by bugmann on Jun 25, 2006 at 6:54 am Permalink

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According to my expert (my wife) she tells me the difference is similar to what a guy feels different when having straight sex and oral sex. I can appreciate this as there is a difference in climax on both of these.

It comes down to personal preferences, as well as skills. Some women run away when asked for butt sex and there are some who prefer it, if done correctly.

I will say that when woman first wants to have butt sex it is best to FULLY prime them by stimulating the nerve endings throughout their body. The ones that normally produce a sexual tyrannosaur out of them when the fingertips are as smooth as possible. Foreplay is a must and the better you are at it the more positive your results will be.

We save butt sex for special occasions or when I need to hear her SCREAM my favorite tune!! I just love that kind of encouragement from her!!! After that rumble she is completely exhausted more so than after any other type sex. So, in your case, I hope that she is the type who loves it that way as, if so, you are going to have one NICE treat in store!!!

So to answer the question what does she get? She gets satisfied in a way that cannot be accomplished with ANY other method. YES woman can love this very much!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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by mseve68 on Nov 15, 2007 at 12:26 pm Permalink

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Some women do and some women don't. I happen to be one that does.
Answer originally posted in response to Ladies... Do woman really like anal sex?
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Avatar mseve68 Nov, 15 2007 at 12:56 PM
Your very welcome and good luck!
Avatar Janie Jan, 27 2008 at 08:48 PM
a small vibrator to use on her clit is also a good tool for taking her mind off the pain and helping her relax is also good. relaxing is the key. as soon as she tenses up its all over!!
Avatar Mr. Knowitall has Wings of Patriotism Oct, 01 2009 at 05:58 PM
Or let her sit on your face while you give her a rim job and finger bang her pussy so that her pussy juice runs down her perineum and into your mouth. She'll probably want something else besides your tongue stuck in her ass after all of that. ☺

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by lady fuschia on Jun 26, 2006 at 7:58 am Permalink

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Well, various things really. And it does depend on the woman.

I'd say by far the most major attraction for most women is in the fact that it's something that is seen as dirty, forbidden and even "wrong"- and that can be a huge turn on in itself. The mind is an erogenous zone as well, and this is particularly true of women. There's also the sense of submission or masochism that comes with anal sex: being made to do something solely for a man's pleasure is immensly erotic for a great many women, the act itself will often happen during role play or bondage sessions, and serves to add to the sense of servitude. Of course, for women with masochistic tendencies, the pain itself can be a turn on.

Also, there is a knock on effect of the sensation of pressing against the vagina- this isn't something all women experience, but it can be quite intensly physically pleasurable for some.
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by ass-slut on Jan 17, 2007 at 6:40 am Permalink

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i am a woman and i love anal sex. in fact, many times it is my preferred method of sexual intercourse. it should only be done with a partner who you can trust. it should be taken very slowly. i would start with a finger and work up from there. Vibration helps, as it tends to relax the muscles. Lubrication is a definite must, especially for a beginner. When combined with clitoral stimulation, anal sex can be mindblowing.
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Avatar ass-slut Jun, 07 2008 at 05:44 AM
Don't get me wrong, I love vaginal sex and oral sex too. However, when conditions are right, anal sex takes me right where I want to be and usually leaves me begging for more.
Avatar SMAN Sep, 07 2008 at 06:19 PM
That's awesome!
Avatar Mr. Knowitall has Wings of Patriotism Oct, 01 2009 at 06:01 PM
Nice. I wish there were women like that where I live cause I think anal rules and would do it all day long to her if I could. Women around here are too sexually conservative and don't like to freak at all. The only people here that seem to enjoy anything anal at all are gay dudes.

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by justme32 loves the weekends on Nov 30, 2006 at 5:53 am Permalink

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As a woman, I can say that I do enjoy anal sex. I have only had one partner with whom I have done this with and he took great care in preparing for it and even greater care in moving forward. It isnt something that should be rushed or taken lightly. Even though I do enjoy it very much with him doing it all of the time is not an option.
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Avatar NOYB Jan, 21 2009 at 04:14 AM
Just curious? You said this guy is the only guy you've had anal sex with. Is it because you've never considered doing it before and suddenly you just decided you'd give it a try (because it was this particular guy or just in general) and discovered that you liked it or have you tried it with others (before or after him) but they just weren't good at it?

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by Jennifer Jason on Oct 3, 2007 at 2:49 pm Permalink

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Answer number 1 was great. Yes it is considered taboo and that makes it fun in of itself.

For me it is also like a gift I'm giving my guy. It is my most private place. I don't let the world go looking and sticking things up my rear. So to let him slip up there is like a way of giving to him.

Plus the anus is full of nerves and the sensations can be amazing. I like to be on my hands and knees with a pillow. I like him to come at me from behind and after he is in I can rest down on the pillow and use a vibrator on my clitoris while he has fun.

I have had some amazing climaxes purely from anal sex.
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Avatar anonymous Dec, 16 2008 at 02:55 PM
You women r absoulutely horny!!!!....crazy!!...as a guy i never wud ask a woman to do this for me..quite unthinkable!..the front is good enough for me!...its a free world i guess and our tastes are different!!...but thanks for the answer it does change a few misconceptions i have...thanks alot!!
Avatar Mr. Knowitall has Wings of Patriotism Oct, 01 2009 at 06:04 PM
Where do I meet women like you? ☺

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by Redrum is tired on Mar 28, 2007 at 9:42 pm Permalink

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There are plenty of sensitive nerve endings around the anus, and in fact there are supposed to be 3 types of orgasm a woman can have:
Vaginal (stimulation of g-spot)
Clitoral
Anal.

Both men and woman can come from having the entrance to the anus stretched and stimulated - men more so because of the extra bonus of a prostate. This is an anal orgasm. I think they're quite rare, but even without that orgasm, anal stimulation can make a person, man or woman, quite horny.

When a person comes normally, (vaginally/clitorally or penilely) the anus actually rhythmically contracts without any stimulation at all. The feeling is often more pleasurable when there is something holding the anus open and resisting that muscular contraction.

In women, there is only a thin sheath of muscle and membrane separating the anus and vagina. It is somewhat possible to stimulate the outer walls of the vagina with something in the anus (just as can be done with the prostate. And there's that bonus of feeling turned on by doing something taboo.

So yes, women can enjoy anal sex. In fact, men can too, both ways. It's a win win situation all round. Personally, I enjoy anal sex, probably more than vaginal sex, but I'm a freak of nature.
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Avatar altgirl84 May, 29 2008 at 11:59 AM
Excellent answer. Especially about the stretched feeling and the resistance. Ditto, I was thinking of how I could've worded the feeling and what not. You actually answered the question unlike some others who were like 'no ew/I don't do that' etc. The question wasn't do you like it or do it lol. Anyway I love your answer :)
Avatar anonymous Dec, 16 2008 at 02:59 PM
you women r absolutely randy!!!...phew!..i am really sweatin now!!!....i think i am really startin 2 get curious now!!!...cheers! 4 the openess gals!

Answer 9 out of 67

by elizabeth on Mar 29, 2007 at 2:20 am Permalink

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almost every woman you ask will flat out say they dont like it, and would never prefer it.... but quite a few just state that because they feel embarrassed.... the fact is that many of them like it.... its a huge turn on just like oral sex is for guys.... the thing is quite a few women like to feel helpless when having sex, and this is one way for the man to be in complete control... the more control the man has the bigger the turn-on for the woman.... so it really just depends on the woman....
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Avatar American-In-Training Mar, 31 2007 at 02:23 PM
The viewpoint from a women is often different to a man and also men won't consider such aspects...coz we're made up differently I think...so thanks for your contribution.
Avatar nice jugs May, 29 2009 at 07:44 PM
i like anal sex very much and i also love the feeling of being helpless,and love my partners to be in control at all times,,,,but only in the bed room,,,really like the way you discribed that,,,it's exactly how i feel,,,
Avatar Mr. Knowitall has Wings of Patriotism Oct, 01 2009 at 06:07 PM
Oral sex really isn't a turn on for me. I'm an ass guy. So that's not true of all men. Everyone has their preference. I love women that are into anal though, but they're almost nonexistent around here.

Answer 10 out of 67

by ANONYMOUSE on Nov 15, 2007 at 12:10 pm Permalink

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aaarrrrgggghhh....eeewwww.. dont even go there!!!
NO,NO, NO, NO, AND NO...
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Avatar Nitroduck Nov, 15 2007 at 02:03 PM
OK! That's all you had to say :)
Avatar ANONYMOUSE Nov, 15 2007 at 02:09 PM
haha :)
Avatar Mr. Knowitall has Wings of Patriotism Oct, 01 2009 at 06:09 PM
Hey everyone: Is she using reverse psychology? ROFL! Just teasing, Mental. ☺


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