Talk to her. If u think she still loves you she will listen and try to make things better. Love means communication, its not guessing games. Love should leave no questions. In the end if your still happy, then you've got what you wanted, if not, its yur choice.

IF YOU DONT HAVE KIDS LEAVE NOW!!!!!!!!! DONT LET HER GET YOU DOWN.

She needs to see someone and get started overcoming her depression. Only then will it become clear what should become of your relationship. I think it's probably more difficult for a person to work on their problems and make changes in their life while in a relationship, but it certainly is possible, especially if you both love and support each other equally.

Stick with her. Help her,guide her in seeking help. If she is unhappy make her happy. Stand by her and forever on word. She will love you for this effort. Give it more time.

she is probably just an unhappy person. You can't help her unless she is cooperative. Maybe she is comfortable to be with because she is like another significant person in your life that didn't acknowledge you. Make sure you compliment yourself on all the good things you do.

I would probably tell her first calmly. If she doesn't respond how you would like, she isn't right for you. Why continue to get hurt? She may not want to get help or really believes that you are the problem Good luck - there's plenty out there

I am having the same problem. Respect and dignity seem to trigger her emotional outbursts. I avoid all the things that most women would get upset about, like cheating, drinking excessively, coming home late, attention to the opposite sex. These important things about me she doesn't respect me for, and the smaller, less important things tear into our relationship. When I try to talk to her about this, she brings our relationship into it and stomps all over it.

Although you've clearly tried to present the situation as thoroughly as good manners will allow, there are simply too many unanswered questions to arrive at an answer that is both accurate and concise. Communication will help you to chart the way forward: you need to understand the source of her dissatisfaction. At the end of the day, though, no romantic relationship (even marriage) ought ever become a prison. If there is really no romantic relationship left to salvage, humanely ending the relationship may ultimately fall to you. You mention "stick(ing) with her until she can get some help," which presupposes that she -- and, by inference, "she alone" -- needs to get help to overcome some unreasonable deficiency in her affection towards you. Especially if she has a history of mental illness, that assessment may not be unfair; however, she is at liberty to resist that sort of help. If you meant "until WE can get some help" -- meaning that you're more focused on relationship issues (which can include things that SEEM one-sided, like healing wounds she sustained in childhood) -- she's still at liberty to decline. The bottom line is that you can only do so much, and after that, the proverbial ball is in her court. If she returns your serve (agrees there is a problem AND is willing to work with you and/or some sort of counselor and/or therapist to resolve whatever issues are causing you this difficulty in your relationship), THEN you've got a game (meaning that the relationship may be salvageable). If despite your longsuffering efforts to communicate, she either refuses to acknowledge the problem or refuses to participate in the "help" you mentioned, the only ethical answer is that you should set her free and you should move on. It seems you're in love with her -- so if it boils down to ending the relationship, expect it to hurt like heck for a long time.

I am actually having the same issue with my current girlfriend. We have been together for about a year. When we first started dating I would show interest in her. She would tell me that I didn't show enough interest because sometimes I wouldn't call her back for hours. I would go out on dates with her, but not as much as she would have liked so I am told. I guess I wasn't sure if she was the one for me so I didn't want to get too attached. Months later things got better, and I was payng more attention to her. I asked her to be my girlfriend in August. Things were good at first but now it seems that we argue almost every day. Things could be going great one minute and the next minute she is picking a fight with me. She constantly brings up her past relationships and new guys that show interest in her. She also talks about my past relationships which upsets her to no end. I love her so much but it is getting to the point where I don't want to fight with her anymore. Its an emotional roller coaster. Lately I have been asking her if she wants to break up with me since she seems so unhappy. She says that I am the one that wants to break up with here and that is why I am asking. She says that I don't know how to let her go so I am trying to get her to let me go. I want to work things out and make it better, but am I doing more harm than good to the both of us?

You can't be with someone who can't be happy on their own. You have to know who you are and what you want before you can be in a healthy relationship with someone else, and it doesn't sound like she's gotten there quite yet. Would you be happier without her? It's not fair to either of you to drag it out, because you'll both end up more hurt in the end. I would end it, but if you really care about her, get one of her girlfriends to help her through this and make sure she is ok.

Leave her.