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  • I wouldn't worry too much about it. It is normal and healthy and shows you have great chemistry with your girlfriend. She probably already knows that it happens and, honestly, I think most women would be flattered because we like to know that we are physically appealing. Even though you are not having a sexual relationship, you are still sexual beings and at your age, what you are experiencing is natural. When my husband and I were first together, the same thing happened :o) He ended up just making a joke of it.
  • That's normal considering you've never had sex. It's your body's natural response, so you shouldn't feel embarrassed or awkward about it. Maybe you could make a little joke about it to relieve the tension. She may find it flattering. You could also "take care of yourself" before hanging out with her to relieve some tension as well.
  • i think you should accept it and talk it over with your girlfriend to make sure she can accept it. im flattered when my bf gets aroused when kissing and giving her a massage. you are being intamate and is natural for you to become aroused and its also likely she is as well, you just cant see it!
  • Hey I'm 20 and the same thing happens to me. I talked to my GF about it and she think's that it's really flattering that she attracts me like that. It's a good thing, and hey, we're both young so all is good! Just remember: safe sex, and don't move on until you are BOTH ready. When I was awkward about it though, I found that when I put my underwear and pants on, it was best to place my penis in some tightly-fitting boxer-briefs and some nice jeans. Also, she said that the same thing happens to her (the whole being aroused thing), so it's all good. P.S. Who doesn't love cuddling? It works wonders for the heart, so would you really be that nervous with something so great?
  • She probably already knows. Don't worry about it.
  • Why...be embarrassed? I am always aroused by my partner's arousal. Um...that is how things WORK my young, inexperienced friend!
  • Why allow yourself to get embarrassed - enjoy the moment; maybe she will notice and tell you how wet she gets! My very best +4
  • just go ahead and have sex. that will definately break the ice..

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