I'm a 21 yo male and i am obsessed with being sexually degraded by other men. Usually groups of men older and alot stronger. They over power me and sometimes bind my hands and feet, and don't let me go for hours. Why does this turn me on?

There are many different things that turn people on sexually. No one knows why they turn some of us on, all we know is that they do. I am not clear if you have engaged in such an act or if it is just a fantasy.

Just remember, if you are going to live out your fantasy, it is crucial that it be lived out safely. I would suggest you create a safety word in case the situation becomes tense.

I would make sure that, in practicing such a fantasy, you know the group of guys present. Since your fantasy includes same sex domination, you should make it clear whether or not you want it to extend to sex or not.

Remember as well, a lot of fantasies are better left to the imagination. Real life tying up, by a group of men, could lead to untold sexual abuse if it got out of hand.

Enjoy yourself. Have fun. Above all, stay safe!

I'll bet you'd love Army Basic Training.

It just means you have a health sexual imagination and having no control over what guys do to you turn you on

I'm no expert by any means. But it sounds as if you are used to being in control in your normal life. Sex can be used as extension of who we want to be, since its one of our most primal urges. You are simply into being dominated, and are attracted to power and love feeling powerless.

I don't know but let's meet.

You have to address your father figure or lack thereof to understand on intellectual level only you know what's happening emotionally

You are just open to those types of things... To each his own...

That's hot. But it really means you're fucked up.