by Monkey on February 18th, 2008

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I know my wife is BI, I saw her yahoo messages and know she recently got sexual with another woman, not sex but very close. She doesn't know I know, how can I bring it up that I'm ok with it without scaring her?

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  • by Autumn70 on January 26th, 2011

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    I would tell her you have a fantasy of her with another woman and see where it goes..She may be more apt to open up about it and possibly include you.

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  • by BirthdayBear on February 18th, 2008

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    Don't essentially say "I know" but more ask her how she feels about other women and if she finds them attractive (watch how you word it as it might sound more like your after a 3some which could lead to problems lol). If she says she isn't attracted to them then bring in that you have a rough idea that she might be. If she tells you she is attracted then you can begin to talk about how you feel about it and make her less scared.

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  • by kerr-plunk on October 14th, 2009

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    well dude if she is your wife... you should be able to talk to her about it. Just dont let her know that you were going through her emails.

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  • by Anonymous on October 14th, 2009

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    You have to talk about it, without question. You could start off by expressing the fantasy, desires or better yet, how women need to feel and share with each other. If she is going to do it, or just experiment, Embrace it and encourge her to explore her feelings and desires. My wife and a friend share time together and I think it enhances her inner beauty as a mature woman.
    Don't tell her you know, tell her that you want to know and want her to enjoy this aspect of her life.

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