ANSWERS: 12
  • You shouldn't feel inadequate, after all, it's just a fantasy of hers. If you make her feel uncomfortable about her fantasy, she may never open up to you about them again. Careful.
  • Ouch, don't ask if you don't want the answer. But shes your wife, she loves you thats what matters, we all have our fantasies :-)
  • Its only natural and she has a natural curiosity about black men too - is that wrong - use her fantasies to your advantage by making the sex between you hotter with fantasy play
  • its ok Dude...I want my wife to be fucked by a Hot black dick..make he cream n scream with pleasure....am trying to talk her into it..love to watch he get fucked..
  • Don't know why you feel inadequate. She is sharing a fantasy. My wife has said she always wanted to experince a black relationship. I told her that is ok with me as long as its just one time. Last July she was at a Christian Choir conference and was seduced by a black singer...she told me all about it and that she enjoyed it. Swears that was first and last time..I belive her.
  • You have no reason to feel inadequate. Most of us white ladies have or do fantasize of a black man seducing us. By the way it is not the penis size! It is about the taboo thing and black on and in white. Especially if we are married it is exciting to think a black man seduces us. So don't feel inadequate, this is just a normal fantasy
  • My wife and I share fantasies and I too am a military member. I feel for you Dude, your lack of confidence in your relationship can be the seed of misfortune. This is an issue of trust; she loves you enough to share her intimate feelings, if you want to know more you have to give of equal value so her trust isn't misplaced. The more trust the more you can discover together how you can replace any fantasy guy. Look it has been my experience the wrong kind of military wife they see themselves as available once we are deployed. What your wife needs are true friends and ways to stay busy. I reccomend constant communication of all kinds and whenever possible. Loneliness is a difficult enemy to defeat your faithfulness and devotion can prevail.
  • No Divorce that disgusting whore
  • She is just curious because the myth is that black men have some sort of animal power that gives them explosive orgasms or something. OK, I am a white male. My wife has had previous husbands that were black. She told me that I am the only one that got her to orgasm. Your wife might just be curious, so tell her black men are no big deal. Oh, on the subject of big deal, I am average size and my wife tells me that I am the bigest she has ever had.
  • It's her fantasy that she shared with you. Enjoy it. My wife brought up her sexually fantasy (that alone surprized me) about sleeping with other men (I was her only). Strangly instead of being mad, I was pretty turned on to here her say something so sexually taboo to me. We had some pretty heated sex right then. I think she was surprized by my reaction. Then it progressed a couple nights later to her telling me how turned on she was by the thought of having sex with large, well endowed black men, and added some details of what she'd like. I called her a little slut, and she liked that. Then we tore into each other making out and she actually orgasmed before our clothes were even off just by dry humping me through our clothes. I asked her if she felt better getting that all of her chest. She said, Yes. Then I asked her what she thought we should do about it. She said, "I think you should let me go out and have lots of sex with other men". I was kind of floored by the fact that she actually was asking to live it out. Then she added "and let me cure my jungle fever". I couldn't help but wanting to see my previously reserved and quiet wife open up and go sexually wild and enjoy herself like never before. I said, "are you sure you want to cure it? If you cured it you'd only need it that one time and you'd be cured. I figured you'd rather go out and get occassional jungle fever treatments." She about attack me at that point and we had probably the hardest sex we ever had. It's weird to say, but that was only this spring and she now has two white men and three black men under her belt. And she wants to jump me and screw my brains out every spare moment we have. In the spirit of our new openess. I had sex with a hottie I met at a pub one night. When I told my wife about it she got turned on and said she wanted to watch me have sex, and told me about how she made out with another younger woman when she was out one night. I don't know what woke up her sexuallity, but I'm not hating it.
  • You aren't wrong for feeling inadequate becuase you are human and one step further "A MALE" it's natural. Could be the whole black guys are bigger stereotype that bothers you. I fantasize about being with different men, mostly made up men or celebrities as I'm sure my husband fantasizes about being with differnet women. Has nothing to do with her love for you, maybe only a curiosity with her. Don't think there's anything to worry about.
  • Not necessarily. She's curious. Her encounter with a black man may turn her off to black men forever. Or it may just be a simple curiosity easily satiated.

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