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by Miss Unafraid on February 15th, 2008

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What would you do if the guy you were sleeping with loved to receive but wouldn't give oral? He had a bad experience 4 YEARS ago and he can't get over it. He earned his "red wings" and he's scarred for life. I love to give but I'd love to receive too.

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  • by Sosueme on February 15th, 2008

    Sosueme

    Just tell him flat out what you like and to get over the prior experience. Explain to him how it makes you feel. If he's not willing, he's probably not worth holding on to. Must admit however, that red wings thing is nasty and shocking. Just don't do that to him.

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  • by rselvy on September 21st, 2009

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    Making love is a two way street, perhaps you need to stop giving him oral. I personally think he is using the "red wings" excuse as just that an excuse. I'd say as long as you're not sporting a healthy yeast infection, ( you know what I mean), then there would be no reason for him to be off the hook. Perhaps what's more troubling is the fact that he is not into you enough to give as well as receive. I used to give oral to my ex while she was OTR, she'd put in a plug when it was light and shower, no problem. The stimulation is not inside anyway, think about it, the man in the boat is where the fun is.
    I hope you get your problem worked out. I'd personally kindly ask him if there iis something else bothering him. Men do get lazy you know.

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  • by Mr_Natural Abstractor of the Quintessence on August 15th, 2009

    Mr_Natural Abstractor of the Quintessence

    It doesn't hurt to clean your unit with a damp washcloth. Most of my gf's did that as a courtesy just before we had sex. I never had to ask. Some things are just traditional.

    Likewise, I never inserted a finger if my hands were dirty. Your vagina is a holy place. :)

     

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  • by Ganja Girl on August 14th, 2009

    Ganja Girl

    i would find someone else to sleep with, sorry, but, my needs must be met as well, for a successfull sexual relationship.

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  • by Anonymous on June 25th, 2009

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    What a lazy bastard!
    I'd say, 'Sorry, baby. Deal breaker. You gotta give to get!'

    And as far as the red wings, tell him to get the f*ck over it if it was 4 YEARS ago.

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  • by Sharona Life is a Tale Told by an Idiot on June 25th, 2009

    Sharona Life is a Tale Told by an Idiot

    What would I do? Stop giving him sex period. He's a self-centered baby.

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  • by boogysplit on May 30th, 2009

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    tell him hes gotta lick it before he sticks it.

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  • by Anonymous on May 30th, 2009

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    I love to give a female oral. My wife hates it or is self concious. Frustrates me.

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  • by Knock on August 14th, 2009

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    Talk to him. make sure that you're very clean. He'll come along.

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  • by ladyshakespeare on September 21st, 2009

    ladyshakespeare

    it has nothing to do with a bad experience, that is a manipulation tactic. he is just a selfish person sexually (many men are) Mine is the same way, there is nothing too much to ask of me, but to ask any little thing of him is too much.

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  • by LuLu on September 21st, 2009

    LuLu

    You know that's bull right! I understand cause I'm going through the same thing. I have a great guy and things are beautiful between us but he refuses to go downtown. I can't deal with that! You definitely have to let your man know that this a requirement. He can't expect and not give. Totally unfair. Let him have it! You should be getting what you give. :) +6

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  • by rebellious angel on February 17th, 2011

    rebellious angel

    he should get therapy. otherwise you're in an unfair relationship

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