Is it lesbian for 2 women to use a double sided dildo? A female friend was trying to get me to do this, but I thought it was lesbian, is it?

Not necessarily. You could say that it's just practical. You both want to use the dildo, so why not use a double sided one simultaneously? It saves time, and thus you have more time in your day to....I dunno, go bowling or buy stickers or something.

no not at all.sounds to me like the 2 of you are just very good open minded frends that are thinking about trying somthing new. i say go for it,and go for the gusto!why put a lable on it? if it makes you feel good then what the fuck? I'm a straight married man and i say (get it on girls!!!!)

straight women don't have sex with each other. if a woman does this with another women, they are lesbian or they are bisexual.

Straight women do not often have sex together, according to my straight women friends. So yes, this sounds like it is bordering on lesbianism to me.

I would say yes. That is not something that 2 straight women would do. I'm never like hey Kim, Let me do your hair and lets try out this dildo. She would look at me like I had 15 heads!!

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Hmm. Well. A lot of lesbians and bisexual girls do use double-sided dildos.

But dildos are sex toys, which, primarily, are used for masturbation.

You'd both be masturbating, so to speak, if you used it. So wouldn't that be mutual masturbation? Just a thought.

Just because you do something sexual with another woman, like using a double-sided dildo, does not necessarily make you a lesbian. I myself am bisexual, and I have used a double-sided dildo with a straight woman. She is not attracted to girls, but enjoyed the experience and would like to try it again. So, does that make her a lesbian? I think not.

Remember, its attraction and feelings, not actions, that determine your sexual orientation.

It sounds like youre experimenting BUT saying that being straight if i was to label myself... it has never been something I would consider maybe you are bisexual or maybe you will try this and find that it isnt your thing at all...so maybe you are just confused.

Don't label yourself just be you and do what your head feels that it wants to do.

No. It sounds like experimenting. A lesbian is a woman who is romantically and sexually attracted only to other women. This sound like you or your friend?

It could be also bisexual...

You know, just because you want to participate with something that is mutually enjoyable with someone you know, doesn't mean you have to get a buzz cut and start wearing flannel.

You would be Bi not lesbian, and if you enjoy the feeling why not?

I would say it would be a lesbian act. But then again I'm not a lesbian so I don't really know.