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by VIOLENT DAVE IS A VIKING PIMP on February 10th, 2008

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Anal sex! Ladies, help us guys out! Please! How do we get you in the mood for it? And what is the best, most "comfortable" position in which to ingage in backdoor fun?

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  • by altgirl84 on February 10th, 2008

    altgirl84

    As for getting in the mood, it can vary between women, and for me it's kind of a gray area, I guess it's the way you'd get a girl in the mood for anything. For me, the easiest position to have it inserted is me on top sliding down onto it. His fav is me lying straight down, legs closed, on my belly (although it hurts a little more for me but we compromise lol). The main thing is (to minimize pain and get her more comfortable) is to go slow. First massage her entrance, then use one finger, then another, maybe lick her there (some girls love that and it arouses them more) maybe a toy after that, and don't forget lube!! Do not do it dry!! When it comes to anal, there's no such thing as too much lube, use the whole damn bottle if you have to. And when you finally do enter her, again, do it slowly, Press gently first for several times back and forth and when you finally pop it in there, don't start thrusting immediately. Give her time to adjust to it, cause the first little thrust to get inside hurts the most (in my opinion). Remind her to relax her anus (I myself sometimes forget this, it tightens up on its own and you don't consciously realize). And let her adjust her position if it helps, even shifting an inch or two a certain way can make a big difference for comfort. Let her guide you as to how fast/deep/hard you do it so she won't get hurt/scared/turned off, especially the first time. Good luck :)

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  • by chanie on April 18th, 2009

    chanie

    well for me it is also a grey area, i allow my bf it once every month, i find that if he gets me excited at the front my back feels more relaxed i prefer if when entering me i wiggle believe me it eases away the pain, it also makes a girl feel more comfortable i find that onthe side is the best position for this.

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  • by sunshine on August 19th, 2009

    sunshine

    As far as position goes, i'm not fussy, front or back it works for me. In the mood? well it just has to happen, I don't ever remember thinking that I just have to get it up the ass tonight, I'm always just wanting to get fucked and if it goes up my ass this time than so be it.

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  • by Mr. Profile on August 28th, 2009

    Mr. Profile

    I know this question is for the ladies but... my wife is liking it more and more as she gets older. As long as she has a vibrator on her clit she doesnt care what the position is.

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  • by Altguy on August 19th, 2009

    Altguy

    I think its best to do alot of forplay and use a small dildo on the ass to get it ready.... lots of lube and take it easy ... but when your using the small dildo the worst thing you can do is forget about the front ... you need to give attention to both bits ....

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