My girlfriend has a sex tape from a past relationship and she doesn't know I've seen it. I've watched it several times and have begun to realize that I get really turned on seeing her with another guy. Should I tell her?

You should tell her you found the tape in a playful tone of voice and then tell her how absolutely hot it was watching her with the other man. Tell her you'd like to see her do it live sometime and see what she says. It could lead to all sorts of adventures!

How did you come across this tape?

I think that you should tell her, but be sure to tell her in an open and non confrontational way. If she is into it, you two could have a great time with a third person in the mix.

Before telling her that I think you should have a conversation sometime about lots of different turn ons. And nonchalantly, once you're into the convo, bring up the cuckold thing (guys loving to share their girls with other men) and guage her reaction. If she seems to be into it, then maybe you should let her know that first, you've seen the tape, and gently go into the fact that you were turned on by it. But if she doesn't seem to be into it, well I'm not sure what to say. Some girls might not be into things initially but once they talk and think about it more, and open their minds, it can end up different. Then again some girls are very closed off. It's a sensitive thing, especially with this fantasy of another guy. Just go into it gently.

Are you sure you'd enjoy seeing her with another guy in front of you, or is it just the sight of your girlfriend having sex that turns you on? If it is the other guy, just be aware that the line you're crossing is a hard one to go back over.

I know that I get a bit turned on thinking of my girlfriend's past sex life (especially her "slutty period"), but I also value the fact that we're the only ones that get to enjoy each other sexually.

tell her if you get the chance follow it through it such a turn on you wouldnt believe.

um can i see it??

Ask yourself this question...why does she keep it? When you figure it out..post it on the net and move on you do not measure up obviously!

No, don't tell her, are you crazy? Why would you do that?

But! What you can do is tell her that you are
interested in the idea of seeing her with another guy.

She might be willing, too.
She might pull out the tape and then oh, gee what's this.

She might want to just keep it fantasy and so you
two talk about it during sex, I dunno. But start
the conversation about what's going on with you.
If she's into it, she'll open up on her own.

If anyone is to bring it up, let her. What you should do is try to make a tape of your own with her. Maybe she will say yes, maybe no. Maybe she will tell you that she made one before. There is your opening. Tell her that you would like to see it and that you think it could be really hot. If she wasn't into it, she probably wouldn't have made it in the first place. She may want to make one with you and screw the other one for now. Keep it to yourself, make a copy, but don't tell her you snooped and found it. You will be gone.