It doesn't matter that you tell him how you feel. He isn't going to listen to that anyway. You just need to say, "I'm breaking up with you because you cheated on me. Goodbye." Then never talk to him again. It'll take you a while to get over the pain, but dragging out the breakup won't make things any easier.

WOW SOUNDS FAMILAR BEEN THERE MY BF CHEATED ON ME, AND I SAT WITH HIM, AND TOLD HIM, DO YOU UNDERSTAND THE PAIN YOU CAUSED ME, WHY WOULD YOU HURT ME LIKE THIS. WHY WOULD YOU CHEAT ON ME IF YOU LOVE ME, I POURED OUT MY HEART TO THIS MAN, TRYING TO MAKE HIM UNDERSTAND THE PAIN HE CAUSED ME. DIDN;T GET THRU HIM ,HIS ACTIONS SHOWED ME HE DIDNT CARE, I EVEN GAVE HIM A SECOND CHANCE, NO REMORSE, HE DIDN'T CHANGE , AFTER TWO WEEKS OF BEING IN HELL AND BEING SICK AND STRESS, I HAD TO GATHER UP MY STRENGTH , AND SAY NO MORE . YOU WILL NOT TREAT ME LIKE THIS, MIND YOU THIS MAN LIVED WITH ME. THIS WAS VERY HARD I STILL LOVE THIS MAN, BUT I HAVE TO TAKE CARE OF MYSELF, I TOOK LONG WALKS, AND I STARTED A JOURNAL. BREATHE INHALE AND EXHALE. LISTEN TO THE SONG KELLY CLARKSON NEVER AGAIN. KNOW YOU DESERVE BETTER, REPEAT THIS TO YOURSELF OVER AND OVER AGAIN, I THOUGHT I WAS NEVER GOING TO GET OVER THE PAIN . MY HEART HURT LIKE IT NEVER DID, BUT I MADE A VOW, I WILL TAKE ONE DAY AT A TIME, I DID THINGS TO MAKE FEEL BETTER , EVEN THOUGH I DIDN'T WANT TO GET OUT OF BED, I FORCED MYSELF TO GO OUTSIDE GET FRESH AIR, THIS WILL ALL PASS IN TIME, I PROMISE, TAKE CARE OF YOU, DON'T ALLOW A MAN TO STEAL YOUR JOY, AND YOUR PEACE, SOMETIMES WE HAVE TO FIGHT FOR OUR HAPPINESS AND STAND WITH SWORDS , TO PROTECT OURSELVES NOT TO LET ANYONE HURT US. AND WE WILL COME OUT STRONGER, THAT'S A PROMISE, BELIEVE YOU DESREVE BETTER, FORGIVE HIM, WISH HIM WELL AND MOVE ON,HARD I KNOW. BUT YOU COULD DO IT TAKE FAITH, AND MOVE ON GOD HAS MUCH MORE FOR US GOOD WOMAN WHO LOVE. AND WE GET STUMBLED ON. GOOD LUCK .

You say, goodbye, and explain that he hurt you, etc...You WILL get over the pain, I promise, it will take time and you will meet someone else.

yes you hurt youre going to you thought you could trust him and now you cant he wants it elsewere, let him have his elsewere and tell himm the truth you want to break up and you arent taking no for an answer.

you go girl . have the guts to stand up say no more of this and dont fall for lies, like it wont happen again or it didnt mean anything, if he cared one damn iota about you he would have never done it.

first off im so sorry. second... you really need to get the courage and tell him you cant be with him. i was with a girl and i gave her a second chance and she did it again. they will always cheat. trust me. you dont want that. leave the a hole and find a man who will treat you the way you want. hope this helps and im sorry again.

I just found out the same. I am livid. Im so angry I cant even cry, and i have been with my boyfriend for 8 yrs. i have supported him though so much, his drug problems, his alcoholic mother, his temper, i have loved him unconditionally and never received the same back. Thats it. Ive snapped. No more. Focus on the anger and what hes done. Focus on the pain and tell yourself every day the reasons why he does not deserve you because of what hes done. i have a ong long way ahead of me, and it may take years to heal...but I tell you I will do it...because i will not let him win. i will be ok. and you will too. take care of you!

Send him a text. "You are the weakest link. Goodbye."