How do you deal with a best friend moving away to a whole other state?
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glamorgirli
ANSWERS: 9
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Welcome to what happens when you go to college. If you want to hold onto that friend, email, IM, call, text, write, and otherwise continue to communicate. I have friends who I have not seen in a long time. We maintain and even improve our friendships by continuing to talk. Yes, it'll be tough. Don't pretend otherwise. But just because she's not *there* doesn't mean she's not there for you, if you know what I mean.
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Wow, what a great opportunity to learn about another place and to really share feelings. Congrats!
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I deal with it by going to the post office and buying a book of stamps. Then I got and buy paper and envelops and get my "write on".
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you move on with your life. you keep in touch and hope you'll get to see him/her in the future. i know exactly how you feel. i joined the air force almost a year ago and i've only been back home once for a week. for the past couple months i have felt completely hopeless. deppressed even. i just wanted a piece of home and last night i got a phone call from my best friend saying that he was coming to visit! all i can say is make new friends. if the person that's leaving is really a good friend, i'm sure you'll stay in touch and everything will work out fine. that's why god created cell phones. lol!
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be there for one another and stay in touch!!!!!! call! if you don't stay in touch you may drift apart!
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You cry. You let it out and don't pretend it'll be easy. Because it won't. My Best Friend for more than half of my life - literally - is now moving and we're so close, that she's seriously apart of me. I cry every night just THINKING about it. But yeah, keep communication going, blah blah blah. Honestly, if you keep a good attitude, you'll be fine. But don't replace that person with a new BFF. Do something special for them before they leave so they'll always remember you. And be strong for them. Although it hurts you too, you have to remember that it's HER/HIM going to a new school and dealing with a whole new lifestyle. Come to terms with reality. And just think that this is how it would have been when you went off to college anyway. Ugh. Love sucks sometimes.
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I'm dealing with this but, I'm also in love with him my BFF... He feels the same for me too. I would do anything to make it work for him here in FL. But the decision is made for him to move away to TX. Too bad we were not honest earlier with each other about our feelings. I'm devastated! But I'm taking him on a cruise before he leaves, and its gonna be real hard not to cry many times while trying to enjoy a amazing time. Man this sucks bad really bad!
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Videochat :)
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If they mean a lot to you,then look for a job near by.
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