You can't make someone love you. And trying to make them will only drive you crazy. And if you worry about that person you may be missing out on someone really great that you wouldn't notice if your focus was elsewhere.

The Bonnie Raitt song says it all: I can't make you love me if you don't...you can't make your heart feel something it won't.... I think you should move on though I know it isn't easy. But one thing you will never have control over is how someone else feels.

this is a hard one ....... because i love someone who doesnt love me either. he use to we were together for 5 years but i cheated twice and now he says too much for him. i know your asking if you love him why cheat? well i was very insecure but i do know now what i want and who i am. i guess if you really love someone just let time pass and if its meant to be then it will happen.

Probably move on!

There is no way to 'make' someone love you. The best way to find someone who loves you is to be yourself - then they REALLY love 'you' and not the person 'you' are trying/pretending/forcing yourself to be. And let's face it, life is not always going to give us perfect happiness by ensuring the object of our affection feels the same way about us. Free yourself to find the special person you truly deserve...no matter how long a time it may take for them to realise you are 'THE one' for them.

It's called "unrequited love" and is responsible for many poems, songs, and suicides. I do NOT endorse the latter. But the former... Yes. If someone loved you and you didn't love them, how would you feel if they kept trying to make you love them? Write some poems... Write some songs... And move on. (BTW: Sometimes when you stop trying so hard, the other begins to notice you're not around, misses you and realizes their own feelings. Don't COUNT on this, but it DOES happen.

u know what i'm in the same boat, i'm in love with someone too but the only difference with me is i haven't seen her in years, she used to go to my old school and recently found her on bebo then all the memories came flowing back and i then realized i felt for her back then too and i don't know if she feel's the same way, i guess the only thing stopping you is fear which i admit that's whats stopping me, I Don't know if this is a positive answer i'm giving here but i don't think u can move on and forget about the person you love unless you heal naturaly, try talking to this person and try to impress thats all i got, Good Luck, i really mean it!

I am going though the same thing.I love this boy so much and we went out before.I was in love with him then to, but i broke up with him because i was going though somthings.I didnt know if he would understand,im tryin to win him back now.He say's he loves me to,but he has a girlfriend right now.I been really talking to one of my friends that is close with him and me.I just really want to know what he is goin to do??? But for u,try as hard as u can to win back your old love.DOnt try to scare then off,but if u love them and you know he/she loves you back, then try.

well, you cant force love, so you can rule that one out. You have to move on.

i loved him and i don't expect anything from him. if you love someone, you don't have to ask him to love you back. if you love, just love. don't expect. don't demand.

unicorns and pixie dust!xD

I was in this situation and I found it to be extremely hurtful. Eventually I made the decision to cut ties with the person and find someone who would love me back.

There are many ways of handling a situation like this, but it depends on the situation and what the person is like. I am going to put it in a boys point of view. My paragraphs may spout off different directions, but I am going to state my opinion clearly as possible. You should keep the love to yourself and let the other person know that you do not feel comfortable with that person not loving you back. Then you should write a media or something on how much you love that person and then its up to you. You are in love, so the other person is making the stupid mistake. Them and their friends can easily tell you that you should move on without understanding your love, but you are in love and you can't stop it. The best thing to do is to ask her on dates without letting her know that you are dating and flush any feeling that she knows that you are in love with her. That way you are having chances with her without realizing that she is going out with you. Keep Asking, the only reason stalkers exist is becuase the other person creates them. You are not a stalker, the other person turns you into one and everyone calls you the stalker and the girl who made you is considered the victim with their lack of understanding the situation. Its annoying to imagine even typing this. They would blame you and consider the villan the evil victim. I mean its like the legal truth and everyone calls the terrorists who destroyed the twin towers, victims and the united states the victors! There is no such thing as stalkers when you are in love. True there are stalkers who stalk for fun, but only a few people like you are in love and the blindness of the world don't see that difference. So in sum, everyone calls you a stalker and a victor and the person who doesn't love you back is a victim, when really. YOU are the victim and everyone else, including the authorities are the victors and the terrorists. It annoys me a lot, seriously. Another thing I could do is explain how problematic it would be if that person doesn't love you, the consequences and the danger of how bad things can get. Maybe you can still go out with that person without them loving you. In sum, the other person doesn't need to love you. They need to respect YOUR love. Again, its YOUR love, not hers, so she just needs to respect that and abide on what you need to do. Besides, I made a funny video of this. You should all watch it: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rm3J8wepHh8&feature=channel Sorry if I offended anyone in my essay, This is all my opinion.

I'm going through this same situation right now. I'm a guy who loves this girl, i went out with her for 5 months before but she broke up with me. I'm still inlove with her and she doesnt want me back anymore. I dont know what to do anymore please give me some tips.

i know totally i love this guys thats one of my best guy friends and im not sure if he likes me back and these other two guys like me back but there not that cute what should i do???

Lots of responses on this one, most pretty good from my point of view. I think the most important thing is when you realize that you love another person is finding out how that person feels about you and (this is improtant), what life situation is the other person in. The two things I would want to know is if it is possible for the person to develop a love for me and is the person available to love me. In either case, it is important to find out because you never know, that person may be in love with you secretly and just thinks you are out of reach. If the answer is yes to the two questions above, I'd approach the person. Nothing works better than a simple conversation with the other person and the truth. If you love this person, you probably know him or her well enough to know how to approach them. If you want to protect you heart and ego a bit, you can start slow by just asking to do lunch and go from there. Sometimes you have to risk rejection to find out if the person will be right for you and if you will be right for the other person. I'd want to know if it was definately out of the question before I moved on. That's what most romantic movies are made of. My two cents. Mlee

It may or may not be a good thing. maybe not maybe so. it may be a good thing to know they dont love you because the relationship may not work then, you may start doing stupid things like beating her because she doesnt like you if you got married. maybe not maybe so. be happy with the mystery. we dont know the future.

I luv(like) smone but felt that she don't......bcoz she don't even wanna talk 2 me. I'm too ob⋅sess with her(jus like daydreaming..!) but will contiue 2 luv(like) her in my own 'not showing' way..I think that she choose not to like me but she can't stop me from loving(liking) her..!!