I want to know what really gets guys going, im terrified my boyfriend is goin else where, not now bt i think he has a one point i try so hard to sexual please him, so tell me guys, what do you want from sex?

Have you played with his ass yet? You would be suprised at how many guys really want something shoved up their ass (start with a finger) but are afraid say so.

But really, if your man is wandering around because you aren't "Good" enough for him, you should find another man. Relationships should never be based on you sexually pleasing him (unless it is a purely sexual relationship). You should both please each other. But don't try new things just to keep him.
If you want to try new things for the both of you, then go for it. But do it for you too.

Well, here's my advice...

Do you always wait for him to make the first move?

If so, you're making a big mistake!

If you're randy and want some, go jump his bones!

And make him eat you up before he takes the plunge (you know what I mean :-) and don't take "no" for an answer!

You can't imagine what a turn on this is for a guy!

I guess im going to answer both questions that you put up. first this one I really like when a girl shows that shes enjoying herself, Moaning, facial expressions, taking control, things like that.

As for your boyfriend sex could be painful for him confront him about it. It may also be that his sex drive is smaller than yours. Try talking to him about this situation.

I'm not saying that this is the case but there is a "disease" called Peyronie's Disease THIS IS NOT AN STD
and it causes sex to be painful and it causes even an erection to become painful. Thats the only reason i brought this up. here is a link to a website about it.
http://kidney.niddk.nih.gov/kudiseases/pubs/peyronie/index.htm

tell him you want him to give it to you and change the everyday notty hair, long gown thing. what im saying is change the scenary a little put a little umph in it.

bj's

I'm having the same problem only I'm terrified to tak control. I have the good girl image an itz really sad that I can't open up to the man I have a kid with Help me out wit a good answer!

u have to have a anything goes mentality in bed and then turn it of every where else a wife in the street and a porn star in the sheets. if then hes still cheating hes greedy. good luck.