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by royalwoman on May 30th, 2006

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I am dating a man with a 1 year old son. His son lives with the mom, and my boyfriend visits his son once a month, but the mom wont leave my boyfriend alone. What should I do?

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  • by Xtrmlyluckygal on March 6th, 2008

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    Well what is she saying? when she calls him is it about the baby or about when are we getting back together? what times is she calling? give me more details hun, and I will tell you what to tell her...but I agree with everyone else, she probably feels bad that he only see the baby once a month...maybe that is why she wants him back!

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  • by R U Sirius on April 6th, 2007

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    All I can say is the son needs more contact from his dad more than just once a month. I could'nt imagine seeing my daughter just 1 time a month.

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  • by dogdogcrazy on March 7th, 2008

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    Nothing. You do not have a relationship with her, he does, and it has nothing to do with you. Let him deal with his x, and you can just relax.

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  • by close account on March 7th, 2008

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    First of all that's his child's mother, so she will never leave your boyfriend alone completely since they have a child together....and if he's only seeing his child once a month he's not really seeing her that often either...once a month isn't much to see your child. YOu should encourage him to see his daughter more.

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  • by MaryWebb on March 6th, 2008

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    It's really not up to you to do anything. It's up to your BF and his ex. At this point all you should do is stand by and wait for things to play out.

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  • by TrickHBD on March 6th, 2008

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    Let him deal with it, if you step in you could cause problems between you and him.....just be an awesome girlfriend, and everything will work out eventually, these things take time.

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  • by Skip_2_My_Lou on April 6th, 2007

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    Just tell her she needs to move on. He's taken and he's yours. So it would be in her best interest to not interfere.

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  • by punkin on April 6th, 2007

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    That's good that he visits the son once a month but how about the son visiting him too.Sometimes both men and woman tend to use their children just to see the parent.If he knows this is happening and he's in a relationship he should just pick him up to spend time with him.Once someone have a child with someone it's easy to slip up even if they don't want to be with that person anymore.He have to make that decision though.

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  • by Vertical on August 12th, 2006

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    I would either talk to the mom or talk to him and have him talk to his mom if it really becomes an isssue. Make her known of the situation.

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  • by -O-uknow on August 13th, 2008

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    Adjust to your place on the backburner.

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  • by loveurself on August 13th, 2008

    loveurself

    wants his cake and he wants to eat it too is that how u say it ....?

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  • by Stick it!! on August 13th, 2008

    Stick it!!

    There is nothing you can or should do.
    It is up to your boyfriend, he should set the standard
    between he and his ex. He could stop whatever she is doing real fast, it's all up to him.

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  • by MaggieZPA on August 13th, 2008

    MaggieZPA

    I don't know that there is anything YOU can do. When you say the boy's mom won't leave your ex alone, what is she doing? You could come off looking like you're trying to alienate him from his kid so you have to be careful in how you handle this. Good Luck!

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